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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2014
1 points

While I understand what you're saying and I agree with a lot of it, I'm sure many would disagree on what effect skin color has on abilities. Not because of an inherent direct connection with abilities...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2014
1 points

I guess redheads could say the same, people with freckles etc. A few dozen years ago it used to be that women with dark skin were frowned upon, and women with really fair skin were popular, so much so...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2014
2 points

The thing is, it's not only perceived a flaw by society, but by stutterer himself, too (in most cases)....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2014
1 points

> PS: regarding evolutionary biology and how this wouldn't be the greatest survival trait... same goes for gay people (can't physically reproduce), but still it's a steady 10% (if not more). Actua...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2014
4 points

Hey man, I feel you right now, I really do. Ive read up on a lot of research, talked with a lot of people and dont a lot of self exploration. After all of my "progress" I feel like my stutter hasnt im...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2014
3 points

I'was always an overt stutterer. I was so severe that there was no way I could hide it. Still I wasn't accepting myself as a stutterer. What I needed the most was a role model who stuttered openly. Th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2014
6 points

First I want to say that you are not alone and that your feelings of anger and resentment are completely valid and understandable. My younger brother stutters, and I have watched him go through differ...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Advice OfferedHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
postr/StutterFeb 11, 2014
3 points

Immense Anger towards it All (Covert Stuttering/Rant)

Immense Anger towards it All (Covert Stuttering/Rant) I am a covert stutterer....kinda. I would classify myself as semi-covert in that I no longer use any techniques, substitutions, or secondaries suc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2014
3 points

Okie doke! Well, I had a ridiculously bad stutter as a child. So much so that it made me a social recluse from the ages of 12-16. However, literally overnight, I just decided to push myself and go to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2014
2 points

Sorry for posting this late. I teach high school math, and I've been doing so for almost a decade. I have been stuttering as long as I can remember. Growing up, I figured out ways to make my stutte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2014
1 points

I'm a manager for a major company and tend to be biased and hire people that stutter. Been battling it my whole life ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2014
2 points

Not much advice on trying not to stutter, when im introducing myself I just try to enjoy meeting the other person (and therefore look like im happy to meet them, and not worried about my stutter). The...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2014
0 points

There are no tips, mate. There is nothing anyone can tell you that will help in any sort of beneficial manner. Breathing techniques, speak slowly, blah blah blah, all that bullshit does not work - at...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2014
1 points

I think you've described many of us to a tee. It's crazy, it's like we're stopped in slow motion, watching people speed through sentences and 'excuse' themselves the rare times they stutter a little a...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2014
3 points

I have started practicing since I read this, it actually has been helping with a few words but it's only been seven days so I doubt I'll see any massive leaps in progress for a little while. I make su...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesCycles & RandomnessIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2014
11 points

I'm not a teacher but I've known professors who stuttered, one of which is an SLP. His breakthrough came when during a year end evaluation questionnare, he decided to put on it, "Does my stutter affec...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2014
6 points

I truly feel for you, I completely understand how you feel. I am 20 and in college and it feels horrible to be passed over for internships in my field (Kinda computer sciency) because I don't convey c...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJan 26, 2014
14 points

Stuttering;Disconnect

Stuttering;Disconnect Living as a covert stutter for 20 years has left me with a catastrophic hole in my spirit, connection to others has been skewed for so much of my life that I feel completely inhu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2014
2 points

I think it's all in the mind. Even though I don't stutter as much anymore, I still have that feeling of fear or failing; that I won't be able to speak fluently. I need to get rid of that fear, but I d...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2014
3 points

No they don't, they just talk. They never had a need to think how to speak, only what they want to say. If there is anyone out there who knows how to become completely unself conscious, please let me ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception