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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2014
2 points

What you're saying makes perfect sense. It's not easy, but I'll try to explain: It's definitely not a perceived confidence thing. For me, the more confident someone who stutters is (with me anyway - ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2014
2 points

Talking to a computer in a tiny room for 5 or 6 hours, and some controlled conversation. It's hard, kind of weird, but good. Very helpful if you apply yourself, but a lot of people decide they don't l...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2014
1 points

I had a moderate stutter when I went to HCRI. I couldn't hide it. The founder/CEO or whatever is kind of scammy/unscientific. The therapists are great though, and you will be fluent when you leave if...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
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commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2014
1 points

For me, weed has always helped with my stuttering at first. It seems to relax me just enough, but it usually makes it worse the more I smoke. Alcohol only seems to help if I really drink a lot. I try ...

Meds & SubstancesIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2014
2 points

I see that this post is almost a month old but I really wanted to leave something here for anyone who happens upon it like me. I'm a new teacher and I have a mild stutter (as well as anxiety depressi...

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Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2014
2 points

Yeah, I think I like just talking about it with people who'd inherently understand what I'm saying without me trying hard to put it in a way non-stutterers will be able to empathize....

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Authenticity vs. MaskingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2014
1 points

YES, I've had the same experience, albeit with a lesser spectrum of substances. Alcohol doesn't help, cannabis might even make it worse (and I hate how heavily it clouds my mind). Apart from those, I'...

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postr/StutterFeb 18, 2014
6 points

How to stop giving a f*** when you have been hiding your own life?

How to stop giving a f*** when you have been hiding your own life? Dear r/stutter I have seen alot of people have sucess and relief after accepting their fate as a stutterer. It feels so refreshing an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2014
2 points

I understand and I agree, I think my problem is being kind all the time and caring too much, this could largely be driven by insecurity about my speech, but I also think it's because I'm just an ideal...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterFeb 11, 2014
3 points

Immense Anger towards it All (Covert Stuttering/Rant)

Immense Anger towards it All (Covert Stuttering/Rant) I am a covert stutterer....kinda. I would classify myself as semi-covert in that I no longer use any techniques, substitutions, or secondaries suc...

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postr/StutterJan 26, 2014
14 points

Stuttering;Disconnect

Stuttering;Disconnect Living as a covert stutter for 20 years has left me with a catastrophic hole in my spirit, connection to others has been skewed for so much of my life that I feel completely inhu...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterJan 25, 2014
2 points

How do fluent people think before they speak?

How do fluent people think before they speak? It seems to me if I rehearse in my head what I wish to say, I will block on some words or I can't even get the sentence started. However, sometimes if I a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJan 10, 2014
4 points

Get over your fear of stuttering online course test run. Looking for 5 guinea pigs :)

Get over your fear of stuttering online course test run. Looking for 5 guinea pigs :) Hello fellow stutters, Do you get a nasty spike of anxiety when your phone rings? Do you avoid certain items when...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2013
3 points

If you want her to know that you have a stutter and weren't rude, then you have to let her know, usually by speaking. Being rude because youre a jerk and being rude because you're crippled by the fear...

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postr/StutterDec 10, 2013
3 points

So, I'm trying to start a vlog.

So, I'm trying to start a vlog. I've been dying to do music reviews forever (sort of like Anthony Fantano). However, I have a moderate-severe stutter. I've been getting more and more confident about...

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postr/StutterDec 7, 2013
0 points

Why I'm leaving r/Stutter...

Why I'm leaving r/Stutter... My stuttering used to impede me a lot. Other kids wouldn't talk to me, and they wouldn't let me play the telephone game. I never talked in class. I learned to overcom...

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Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2013
1 points

It helps to an extent, I find that personas are very helpful for speaking more fluently personally, the only problem is I choose to not adopt one most of the time because of the fact that I'd rather b...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2013
1 points

I feel that I don't need to highlight it myself. I don't see a reason to do that voluntarily. If i stutter when talking to someone, and they ask me about it, I don't hesitate to answer their questions...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2013
2 points

I don't "advertise" per say. But if I happen to stutter then I kind of just brush/laugh it off ("wow that was a mouthful, let's try that again" etc). If you treat me differently because of something...

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Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2013
2 points

That's a very good point about the fluency-shaping philosophy (which I am not a huge fan of). Speech should *always* sound natural. It is better to be natural and disfluent than fluent and "robotic" o...

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Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking