How to stop giving a f*** when you have been hiding your own life?

How to stop giving a f*** when you have been hiding your own life? Dear r/stutter I have seen alot of people have sucess and relief after accepting their fate as a stutterer. It feels so refreshing and free I want to go there too but I dont know how I just say f*** it and accept my stutter when I have been hiding it so well my own life even my family and friends dont know. I also have a pretty demanding job that I do not want to lose as a result of this. Any advice or personal experience are welcome. Thanks