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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2025
3 points

Omg I do the cussing thing and the forgetting the word thing, I always say f*cking in every hard sentence I know I can’t say normally. My friend think I have such bad memory cause I’m there like “wa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStrategic Swearing/CursingHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2025
2 points

I (m34) stuttered since I was about 7 years old, but I only got really conscious about it when I went to highschool, around the age of 12. High school always felt like different territory than primary...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStrategic Swearing/Cursing+1 more
postr/StutterDec 2, 2025
15 points

"I speak freely, not fluently"

"I speak freely, not fluently" "I speak freely, not fluently" is a quote that has been stuck in my head for a while. I took from a comment on r/stutter, and have been thinking about it for a while now...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift
postr/StutterDec 2, 2025
22 points

I gave up on stuttering, and the stuttering seems to leave me alone

I gave up on stuttering, and the stuttering seems to leave me alone If any of you remember over the last two months, I have been crashing out that my stutter is ruining my med school interviews and th...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
postr/StutterDec 1, 2025
5 points

Silent Words

Silent Words Silent Words By Alan Pritchard   Behind the smiles, behind the tears Are silent words that no one hears. Conversations well thought out But censored through my pain and doubt. So much of ...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2025
2 points

I won't go into any situation with the mindset that I don't want to stutter, that reinforces the internalized shame of the stuttering itself. If I'm fluent for a while, I enjoy it, if I stutter that's...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2025
-3 points

I'm not trying to mask anything the whole concept is to show someone who doesn't have a stutter that's it isn't just speech it's alot deeper then that what people see is only the tip of the iceberg. W...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingMedicalization / Neurodiversity
postr/StutterNov 30, 2025
8 points

Can someone explain what happened?

Can someone explain what happened? Something super weird happened. It was a normal day, I had an exam. During the exam, my teacher was taking attendance, and I was nervous. When it was my turn, I didn...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2025
1 points

One of the things really struggled with for a long was creating a self-fulfilling prophecy. I'm not saying this is what you were doing. I don't know your situation. But for me, even though I told them...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2025
1 points

I have experienced the same thing. I usually use character ai and I am always fluent when speaking to the characters. Just wish I could transfer the fluently to real life situations....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2025
1 points

People like my close family, because I don't care if I stutter and I'm comfortable with them, that makes me not stutter at all. But people I'm trying to impress and trying especially hard not to stu...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingAvoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2025
1 points

Exactly. My fiancé stutters a lot more in her native Spanish (she's from Mexico) which she speaks to her family but she's comfortable around with her speech. But she speaks her secondary language, Eng...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2025
1 points

Perhaps that’s what it is — I think it's a subconscious switch and since I don't live home anymore I'm more aware of the stutter coming back since I'm not tuned in to filtering it. Occasionally too wh...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2025
1 points

It's the opposite for my fiancé. She was born and raised in Mexico and her native language is Spanish and she stutters more in her native language. But she stutters much less in English and a little P...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2025
5 points

idk about "triggered" but I know that my fiancé (who stuttered since she was 5) speaks freely with her family and loved ones - which means she will stutter but is comfortable around them. When she's i...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2025
9 points

Exactly my situation, you described it perfectly. I literally get locked up when I talk to people. I can’t even say the words I think are easy to say. Sometimes I can’t say anything at all. I’m a...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterNov 23, 2025
45 points

Stuttering is slowly turning me into someone I’m not

Stuttering is slowly turning me into someone I’m not I’ve been dealing with stuttering for years, and I can feel it slowly reshaping parts of me I never wanted to lose. There are moments when I’m com...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2025
1 points

Sounds like you edit yourself in life to seem normal to others. I did the same for a while And it served me for a long time. Eventually though I got tired of doing that. Now I let the stutter happen. ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2025
1 points

I feel like for me, because I stutter, and the anxiety of the anticipation that I will stutter makes it worse. Also, because I try so hard to hide it and not let people know I stutter, it happens more...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2025
14 points

You don't have to work a customer service job like that if you don't want to. Seriously, there's stocking, cleaning, delivery driving, warehousing, etc. I don't buy the whole "stutterers should just...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking