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postr/StutterJan 8, 2014
3 points

Do you ever stutter and not realize it?

Do you ever stutter and not realize it? Background: I'm 36 and I've had a minor stutter my whole life. Recently I did a teambuilding thing at work where a few of us did a video recording for some o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2014
6 points

Answering the phone at work was the hardest thing in the world back in my high school days. Something about saying "hello, this is Subway" was just impossible without stretching that 's' for a few sec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJan 1, 2014
13 points

Just found this Sub and thought I'd share my story.

Just found this Sub and thought I'd share my story. I'm a 20 year old male and I would consider myself to have a mild stutter. My stuttering is mild enough to where I've had a Job interview and the pe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentCycles & Randomness+1 more
postr/StutterDec 29, 2013
0 points

Can I fake being a "real" mute?

Can I fake being a "real" mute? It's been getting worse lately, and I don't think I could successfully say anything to anyone anymore, no matter how much time I'm given. If I moved somewhere where no...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2013
1 points

I had the opposite approach to my stutter. I oftentimes deliberately put myself in situations where I know I'm going to have to talk to people just to prove to myself that it wasn't affecting me. I TA...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2013
2 points

If the waitress is really worrying you, go back and talk to her. Explain to her that overcoming such fears/problems as the other day is a step on your road to 'owning' your stutter. If I ever have a ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2013
2 points

I used to hide it until I noticed it made things worse when I did talk. Now, I talk as much as possible even to the point of starting a few podcasts (not stuttering related) just to give me a reason t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2013
3 points

If you want her to know that you have a stutter and weren't rude, then you have to let her know, usually by speaking. Being rude because youre a jerk and being rude because you're crippled by the fear...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterDec 24, 2013
18 points

Does anybody else hide their stutter to the point that people don't realize you stutter but comment on your avoidance behaviors and stuttering side-effects (low confidence)?

Does anybody else hide their stutter to the point that people don't realize you stutter but comment on your avoidance behaviors and stuttering side-effects (low confidence)? When I tell people I stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2013
2 points

Stopped giving a damn. Medium dose anti depressant. Counseling from a psychotherapist. These are some of the things that have helped me virtually lose all my stutter. I only stutter, or have periods o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2013
1 points

Hello Dylan, your post really inspires me. I was/am an international student in the U.S/ Aus. Being a stutterer has really impacted my life in a very negative way, I am too scare to speak to people, e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2013
10 points

Not giving a shit is the best tool for getting the upper hand on one's stutter. At some point in my 20s I stopped caring if I stuttered in front of people, or if they thought less of me when I did. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2013
3 points

Hi! I've been stuttering since I was 3, so I don't remember myself without it. It was pretty bad in primary school, got worse in middle school (got bullied a lot, no one dared to be friends with me fo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2013
1 points

I've been lucky, the only instances I've even made fun of is when people genuinely don't know what's going and make a joke to break the awkwardness. Usually, I have to explain to randoms that I have o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterDec 20, 2013
9 points

Hi Reddit! Wanted to join the community, the only community that I feel will understand.

Hi Reddit! Wanted to join the community, the only community that I feel will understand. Hey guys. A bit of background on myself, and why I'm here. I'm a 25yo male, living in Adelaide, Australia. I'v...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Severity & FluctuationHiding & ConcealmentValidation & Empathy+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2013
1 points

Phone calls are rough, man. I can't even imagine what goes through your head if a customer calls and asks to speak to the manager :x...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2013
2 points

I am a manager at Wendy's and I try to avoid the phone at all costs. I typically use my best crew member that day to handle any calls that come through....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterDec 14, 2013
13 points

A technique I use to help combat my stutter

A technique I use to help combat my stutter Hey guys, I posted here a little while back about how being a socially-awkward stuttering musician sucks, but I thought about something that's actually been...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & SubstitutionPhysical Tension+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2013
1 points

I was in speech therapy from 1st grade through 12th grade. I don't really remember much of what I worked on in those sessions, but for the most part, I believe it was just practicing lists of words wi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2013
1 points

I guess I'm wondering whether you think the average music vlog listener would find it off-putting. I'm about to post a review, but since it's just an introduction I thought it would be a good way to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentPublic Speaking