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commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
1 points

I currently work at staples. I do talk to people, tell them where things are and any other assistance they may need. Although I am not stutter or anxiety free, it helps when people approach you and yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
3 points

I dont think you should over do it but having a job and getting some experience working with/around people is good. You can just start slow if you'd like. I worked at a drug store in high school, stoc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterNov 5, 2014
7 points

My gf orders for me at the drive thru. Is that healthy?

My gf orders for me at the drive thru. Is that healthy? I feel like I should do it myself but I don't want to embarrass myself lol. She doesn't care of course, and it calls it cute but I rather save t...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2014
3 points

I have been trapped in my little bubble for so long, man. I'm at college, 3rd year, but all of my friends have left and so it was just me. I panicked because my habits (smoking weed) does not help my ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentNeurological & Brain+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2014
1 points

I usually stand up and try not be around other people. I may go into another bedroom or outside. Getting it over with as you say is a good idea. Before making a call to someone who I don't know (or do...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2014
1 points

I'm 30 yrs old. Still stutter but now I can mask it really well. I can switch phrases really fast and I have a blocking stutter most of the time where it's at the beginning of phrases or words with ce...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2014
6 points

I've stuttered since I was a kid, and like you, I think I'm a lot funnier, wittier, and well-spoken over writing than over speech. But I've done a lot better in college. I still stutter, mind you, but...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterOct 30, 2014
14 points

I feel trapped in my own body

I feel trapped in my own body I've dealt with a stammer for as long as I can remember and I've rarely felt of it like this before, however I moved to university a month or so ago. Over text speech, I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 26, 2014
10 points

What worked best for you? This is crippling.

What worked best for you? This is crippling. Hey all, This is my first time posting here, and my first time posting anywhere about my stutter, for that matter. As a little background, I'm 23 and work...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringBlocks & Stoppages+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2014
3 points

I've had speech therapy all of my life man and in the end, it's all about your mindset and what you do with the information, I mean I've retained none of it and never really applied it because I was a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 24, 2014
12 points

In view of Stuttering Awareness Day (Oct 22), tell your story.

In view of Stuttering Awareness Day (Oct 22), tell your story. My story: I have stuttered since I could remember, mine is rather pronounced but not severe. I cannot hide it but I have managed with it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2014
2 points

Advertise and HOLD EYE CONTACT. Even when stuttering. Eye contact = I know what I'm talking about and I'm confident about it. Most communication is done by body language anyway....

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2014
5 points

My therapist has stressed to me to advertise my stuttering. It really does work as it lets the listener know you're not a bumbling idiot and it eases your mind that you don't have to hide it and don't...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2014
1 points

Well I am covert at times, but then when I hit that brick wall it becomes painfully obvious. Today I had to give my email address at the gym, got to the @ sign, then physically could not say 'gmail'. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2014
2 points

I think your a covert stutterer. My opinion is if your ok being covert, so be it. But if being covert takes tons of energy away from you, drop it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2014
3 points

Word substitution is a very common trait that people who stutter have. In fact, we spend a LOT of effort (physical/mental) on trying to hide our stutter and word substitution and avoiding situations i...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2014
3 points

This happened to be a long time ago. The top comment seems to have it. We are so resistant (afraid) to stutter that we can't even show it anymore. The harder we try to cover it up the more severe it b...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHiding & ConcealmentTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2014
2 points

Definitely at its worst in High School. I moved right before High School and never made one friend throughout those 4 years. So I guess the not talking just made my stutter go on a steady decline. I h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkTherapy & Professional
Hiding & ConcealmentSchool & Academic LifeSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2014
1 points

I may be totally wrong on this, but apparently speech blocks are the next step of stuttering. It's your brain saying "I'm so scared of stuttering that I just won't even talk." If you don't talk, you d...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2014
1 points

hm, don't buy into the "introvert" label too much. it's become popular in recent years, but my worry is that people are digging the self-identification part of it a little too much. we might as well ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFriendships & Belonging