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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2020
3 points

I’m sorry that your Mother doesn’t give you the grace and patience you deserve. That must be so difficult, being that it’s not something you can control. Maybe you should have a conversation with her ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Family Support & ConflictAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 27, 2020
1 points

oh, its my mother. and we all know not to talk back, or we'd get an hour-long lecture.. o\_o'' though, i have talked to her about it today and she told me she understood! i still stutter around her li...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Family Support & ConflictSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterAug 31, 2020
1 points

Feeling resentment towards my parents for not getting me a speech therapist

Feeling resentment towards my parents for not getting me a speech therapist Hi guys, so I’m a 21 year old female who has just graduated from university with a good degree and I’m on the hunt for a job...

Causes & VariabilityCommunity & SupportParent & Caregiver
Genetic & Family FactorsAdvice RequestsParent Emotions & Guilt+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2020
2 points

>Can't even say my own name! yeah that is one of the most frustrating things and i am so sorry about your family! also i am here if you wanna talk :)...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesValidation & EmpathyFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2020
1 points

See it’s complex because when I was suffering my mum was severely depressed, and my dad started drinking. My brother smashed the house up every day so you know, things weren’t great. It’s complex also...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Trauma & PsychologicalSadness & HopelessnessFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
3 points

My niece did this to me during a family vacation once. What hurt most is that I had to defend myself because no one spoke up for me. When people make fun of your stutter, it is due to sheer ignorance....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
3 points

Yeah, it definitely hurts more when it comes from a family member. She doesn't do it anymore but then again I don't see her much either lol but I've learned to ignore people. I am sorry that happened ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingFamily Support & Conflict
postr/StutterJul 6, 2020
34 points

I want a restart

I want a restart I want a restart. I'm okay with living a life in which I happen to stutter. But I've attached too many emotions to it that it seems almost impossible to unwind all those knots. it see...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2020
2 points

Oh Im so sorry! I misread. I feel you, my family is the same. Most of them dont even know I stutter (or they dont want to know haha), my mom knows how stutter affected me in school but she acts like e...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2020
1 points

My family doesn't really support me. But i gotta support them financially. They dont think of stammering as a problem or how it affects me. 💔...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessFamily Support & Conflict
postr/StutterJun 14, 2020
7 points

To those who got your stutter from a parent, do you also have a harder time speaking to them?

To those who got your stutter from a parent, do you also have a harder time speaking to them? Its like I go into my fathers head and feel shame that he gave me this stutter whenever I have a long stut...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
1 points

Hi Margaux ! It's pretty lame that your grandparents does that. Maybe they do it because they think that it's the way to solve it, you know, the "old mentality" : "Force more and it will works", but t...

Parent & CaregiverSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
School/Clinical AdvocacyAccess & RightsFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
1 points

I am exactly in the same case. My dad stuttered in the past (his mom too), but it was always a taboo. Like you, he is trying every stuff to force me to speak correctly. Which made me even more stutter...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Family Support & ConflictFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
1 points

Family relations are tricky and I’m not going to presume I know anything about your relationship with your father. Is it safe to assume, however, that your dad loves you and wants the best for you? I...

Parent & CaregiverSocial & Relationships
Parent Emotions & GuiltFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
3 points

My dad calls me lazy for stuttering, i have severe anxiety when I talk to him about certain stuff like my stuttering. He’s says he had a stutter but I told him that I bet it wasn’t as bad as mine, he’...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2020
4 points

My dad calls me lazy for stuttering, i have severe anxiety when I talk to him about certain stuff like my stuttering. He’s says he had a stutter but I told him that I bet it wasn’t as bad as mine, he’...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2020
3 points

That is terrible and I am shocked. Did you tell your parents or slp if you have one? Maybe they can talk to them and educate them on stuttering....thats it's not your choice. Its like if one of them w...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Family Support & ConflictStigma & BullyingAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2020
11 points

Your written English is the same as me speaking... any language. You’re fine :) This is a terrible situation. For starters, I would start exploring other options that you might have (and I don’t know...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2020
1 points

Hi Margaux, first of all I'm so sorry that your grandparents said something so rude and hurtful. Your stutter shouldn't be a reason for you not to follow your dreams and study subjects that you're int...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerFamily Support & Conflict+1 more
postr/StutterJun 12, 2020
85 points

If you still stutter next year, we will not pay your university and studies ...

If you still stutter next year, we will not pay your university and studies ... Hi i am Margaux, i am 18 years old and my grandparents told me that Yesterday ... I can't stop thinking about it, it's j...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness+1 more