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commentr/StutterDec 20, 2025
1 points

Tell them how much it hurts you when they do this! Open up a dialogue with them about it. Choose a good time when you’re all at the dinner table having a nice family discussion. Make sure there’s no ...

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commentr/StutterDec 20, 2025
2 points

i don't agree with the whole "there's a chance of \[...\], so I won't have children" take, but i can't agree with your reasoning either. the "so you would rather be dead?" part is so wrong. this is n...

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commentr/StutterDec 20, 2025
1 points

Any country you're clearly a foreigner who statistically wouldn't be able to speak the local language. When did I say it went away when speaking another language? The expectation to be able to speak...

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commentr/StutterDec 20, 2025
6 points

Please tell me a country were people don't speak? You need to speak everywhere in this world to succeed, that is the whole reason why stutterers have such a high suicidal ideation in the first place. ...

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commentr/StutterDec 20, 2025
1 points

I'm not even to go down the route of comparing down syndrome to stuttering. It's totally different. If you stutter so severly that you're considering killing yourself, why not just move? Go to anothe...

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commentr/StutterDec 20, 2025
7 points

The "humiliation" you speak of is subjective and is determined by ones character. If you do not wish your child to suffer the same "humiliation", then equip them to stand up for themselves, be confide...

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2025
1 points

Yeah speaking over you every time you talk isn’t cool regardless if it’s family or not. Maybe having a proper adult conversation with them one day and telling them how you feel is probably the only wa...

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2025
2 points

when people help me out incorrectly, i just end up finishing my sentence. I make sure to look at them in their eyes so they know not to do it again, and make it obvious im still talking. It can be fri...

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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2025
1 points

I’m in a similar spot but I’ve asked to reply with written replies rather than a phone screener when possible. Sometimes it work and sometimes not. How do you go about leading or taking calls like o...

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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2025
2 points

I think if you don't know person it is better to let them say what they want to say. And as soon as you know them better in my opinion best is to communicate it. Do they mind or not, better to talk ...

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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2025
1 points

Yup. "That's rude. I have a stutter" and walk away....

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commentr/StutterDec 18, 2025
6 points

Yup. "That's rude. I have a stutter" and walk away....

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postr/StutterDec 14, 2025
1 points

Please help

Please help I am having stammering from my birth. please notice that it occurs only in the starting once I clear that it is fine but I can't pronounce my name "JASHWANTH" can someone give any tips to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterDec 12, 2025
30 points

Just had a relentless block on the phone saying my birth date and had to pretend like the call was cutting out

Just had a relentless block on the phone saying my birth date and had to pretend like the call was cutting out 😑 I'm too old for this. I just don't know what to do anymore. Start taking myself seriou...

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commentr/StutterDec 12, 2025
3 points

Get the proper support you need from everyone you know to help you eventually tell your dad the truth. At the end of the day what is the worst case scenario? Would your dad turn cold disown kick you...

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commentr/StutterDec 12, 2025
2 points

Good recommendation i will think about it! But my dad has raised me very well, he is very loving and caring and that's the part that makes it hurt so bad. He always says i can tell him anything whatev...

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commentr/StutterDec 12, 2025
2 points

People you know as in you talk online and eventually meet in person?  For me I would tell people beforehand. Any people I met in high school, college, online who heard me talk know so they either co...

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commentr/StutterDec 12, 2025
3 points

Relapse and you didn't feel comfortable safe being honest open with him? Sounds like my dad opening up to him and being shamed.  It seems your entire relationship with your dad was based on a lie yo...

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commentr/StutterDec 11, 2025
1 points

Unfortunately, sometimes some people in our lives aren't safe in this way, if you are underage you need to speak to another trusted adult about how it makes you feel and hopefully they can advocate fo...

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commentr/StutterDec 11, 2025
6 points

It's a whole story behind it actually. My dad is in general someone with a very long attention span he always likes to lead the conversation so he's not really a good listener because if it doesn't in...

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