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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2014
1 points

100% covert. No one really knows that I ACTUALLY stutter except for my family and a close friend. A few of them think that I stutter because I'm so nervous or because I'm antisocial, but none know tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterAug 18, 2014
4 points

Writing a Story with a Stuttering Main Character - I Need Help from r/Stutter to ensure that I do the condition justice!

Writing a Story with a Stuttering Main Character - I Need Help from r/Stutter to ensure that I do the condition justice! Hi r/Stutter, I'm an aspiring author writing a children's novel. I'm about 40,...

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commentr/StutterAug 17, 2014
1 points

I only met people who stuttered a month or so ago. For the first time ever. It was an interesting feeling -- as others have said "oh, that's what I sound like." The strangest thing for me at the NSA c...

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Validation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2014
3 points

I always like to advertise in the beginning of the interview, just a quick. Hi my name is spyknight, it's very nice to meet you, before we start I wanted to let you know I have a stutter so if you hea...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2014
2 points

When I went to my job interview, it was the first thing I told the boss and after that she was very understanding and all of the managers where I work have been extremly accepting and tolerant. Maybe ...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2014
1 points

i'm going through the same problem right now. gonna be starting university after summer and have been stressing about how i'm gonna get my name out to all the people that will be asking me. So far the...

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2014
2 points

Well it sounds like you've come a long way but this is one side of your stutter you havent accepted yet. Maybe it's a worry about not making a good first impression or something. I just try to focus o...

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Feared Words & NamesAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2014
2 points

I used to stutter my name out. But instead of saying just my name I go. "my name's jim" "my name is jim" I start with "my name is" because I'm sort of introducing myself. Get used to introducing...

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postr/StutterJul 16, 2014
8 points

i have severe anxiety when i need to introduce myself in social situations. advice?

i have severe anxiety when i need to introduce myself in social situations. advice? 90% of the time i stutter its when i have to introduce myself, specifically when i have to say my name. the rest of ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating StutteringDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJul 10, 2014
2 points

Playback a recording of yourself during a phone call

Playback a recording of yourself during a phone call Hi, As most of us here, I'm a stutterer, with avoidance tendencies, especially towards making calls... Talking face to face is less of a problem f...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2014
3 points

I'm definitely going to go to Chicago. DC was my first (and I'm 35) and it changed everything for me. I realized that I didn't have to hide or be covert, or care what others think, or worry about my f...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2014
2 points

At one of my old jobs my co-workers and I were cued up for food or something. For one reason or another I was taking more time choosing my food than my coworker thought I should. She was a really love...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2014
3 points

Recently I was talking to someone and they asked my name. I started to stutter on my name (which results in me keeping my mouth open and looking confused) and the person thought I had to think hard a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2014
1 points

I believe in self-disclosure. Depending on the severity of your stutter, it might be something you can keep in your back pocket as a lifeline. Saying "Please be patient, I have a stutter." can allevia...

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commentr/StutterJun 6, 2014
1 points

I went through the same thing when I started college. Honestly stuttering sucks but its who we are, something that I do when I start to stumble a lot is I start talking in gibberish for a few seconds ...

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commentr/StutterJun 2, 2014
3 points

I'm in college right now, and the strategy I've been using is pretty similar to the ones recommended by everyone else. I'd say to definitely speak to your teacher face-to-face, a quick minute-long int...

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commentr/StutterJun 2, 2014
1 points

I just finished grad school and found that letting people know up front worked very well for me. Any time I had to introduce myself or give a presentation I advertised it. By addressing it openly you ...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
School & Academic LifeDisclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJun 2, 2014
5 points

Starting college tomorrow

Starting college tomorrow I'm a recent high school grad who will be taking English 101 this summer. I'm a bit nervous to start college already and my stuttering makes me feel even worse. Before class,...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2014
1 points

My fear began going away once I became open about my stuttering. With most people if you just say "hey man I stutter sometimes, it seems awkward for me but I'm totally used to it" or something of that...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2014
1 points

Thanks for the advice man. Yeah I'm going for it again this fall. I'm thinking about telling them that I have a mild stutter beforehand. We'll see how it goes. I wont certainly be backing down though ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution