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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2013
1 points

I know your struggle my friend, all too well. This is very hard advice, because it's very difficult, but you just have to stop caring so much. Trust me, it took me about a decade to stop giving a sh...

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2013
1 points

I've never tried light-contact before. Can you elaborate? Also, I keep telling myself that I'll tell people that I stutter (in cases of doing a presentation), but I can never actually get myself to d...

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2013
2 points

You shouldn't bring yourself down like that, you don't deserve it if someone says something about it just say yes i stutter and continue on. Most people don't care that you stutter. if they do then do...

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2013
3 points

Anticipatory struggle is a bitch. Worrying about stuttering will only make it worse. I've been teaching myself over time to, as soon as I reach a block or stutter, immediately stop thinking about that...

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2013
14 points

Don't panic. Don't lose hope. You are not alone. First, you should read two books, by two people who have recovered from stuttering following not very different paths. The first is [Redefining Stutt...

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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2013
1 points

Addressing your last paragraph, especially when you say "I'm wasting their time." That's entirely not true. There are those VERY few people that don't understand what stuttering means and think it's s...

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postr/StutterFeb 24, 2013
23 points

Rant: I'm 24 and I don't know what to do

Rant: I'm 24 and I don't know what to do I've been stuttering since I was in first grade. Following an embarrassing and pathetic "Talent Show" We were forced to take part in, I had the joy of being pa...

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commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2013
2 points

The same thing happened to me. I did not like talking like a robot and of course my fluent speech relapsed. I went to the PFSP program in Virginia and I am finding more and more evidence to suggest ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2013
2 points

I too have tried this method and the truth is that you should not have to constantly be thinking about how to slur your words together when you talk. This speech sounds unnatural. I had to ween myse...

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commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2013
13 points

Being a stutterer myself, all I can tell you is that you need to learn to accept it as a thing that is a part of you, rather than a thing that defines you. Stuttering sucks, there's no other way to s...

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postr/StutterFeb 12, 2013
9 points

some rants?

some rants? Just found this subreddit seconds ago. Never thought it actually exist. I'm stuttering since child (now I'm 20). I never met any person who stutter in my country. The community around me ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2013
1 points

im kinda like that, i still stutter but not as bad and i love talking about tech but i get to excited and start stuttering super bad...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2013
2 points

may i ask how old you are? i never heard of anyone develop a stutter out of the blue dont be embarrassed, if your around a mature group they wouldnt care if you stuttered or not before you talk take a...

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postr/StutterJan 28, 2013
1 points

Reading out loud

Reading out loud For some reason, whenever I read directly from a piece of paper, book, PowerPoint, etc. I am able to speak clearly and fluently. Was wondering if anyone else had experienced this and...

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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2013
3 points

The same thing happens to me with the things that I am really passionate about. It doesn't go away completely and I still stumble on certain words but it get much easier....

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2013
2 points

Everything feels perfectly spot on for me. Had especially never thought of the part about that people that stutter because we are trying to talk perfectly. But it really feels right. ...

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postr/StutterJan 15, 2013
1 points

Has anyone else here developed a stutter?

Has anyone else here developed a stutter? Hi, I'm new here and just testing the waters and thought I'd ask if anyone else has had a similar experience to me. My speech difficulties are a relatively ne...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2013
1 points

Take a breath, try not to think about what exactly you want to say, but maybe the idea that you are trying to get across. Then, you can subconsciously put this idea into your own words as you spew it ...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2013
1 points

Similarly, I agree with you 100%. Sometimes, there is only *one* word to actually convey what you are thinking. I'm getting better as time goes on. Hopefully, we will eventually outgrow this!...

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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2013
1 points

Damn, that's the first time I hear something which I can relate 100% to. I use the same techniques you described. And some other, too. Like fillwords for example. That really is the best advice. Keep...

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