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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2024
6 points

Yea bro you're not strange. People may misunderstand you but you're not stange. Unless you're there's something I don't know beside you're stutter like if you're a serial killer or soemthing. That's a...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2024
6 points

Just talk with people with decent morals and positive vibes bro. Funny you asked this question i just went through this recently too with this big oak at my job. Luckily for me i give 2 fucks cuz he s...

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Frustration & AngerPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2024
4 points

Yea can't do anything about anyone's thoughts or actions. The only thing you can control your reactions and actions to what other people do. Personally I would keep it pushing. And I wouldn't assume...

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2024
9 points

I feel your pain. In every job I’ve had I can talk to everyone fine all day and as soon as I have to talk to my boss. It’s game over....

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Employment & CareerPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2023
4 points

I almost had a cop rip my car apart to search it for drugs because I stutter....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2023
1 points

On the positive side - people will remember you forever. "That guy who stutters" - society considers u naive and innocent. So u can get away doing anything horrible.. 😁😁 - if you have stutter peopl...

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2023
1 points

I actually own that book lol! Haven’t started reading it yet but it was recommended in John Harrison’s book “Redefining Stuttering”. I struggle with my self image. I’m on the Autism spectrum so grew...

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commentr/StutterDec 17, 2023
1 points

Damn, was it hard to speak infront of that many people? I aint tryna argue, can I ask u something else...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Public SpeakingPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2023
1 points

Malnuman, can I ask how you get on speaking to people younger than you? I used to find ordering food or drinks really high anxiety because the person I had to ask was older than me. I’m now 22 so wh...

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Power Dynamics & IntimidationAnxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2023
1 points

My stutter is less severe than it used to be, and so once I get comfortable with my workers I can easily talk to them, but when I have to coach or discipline someone it gets worse....

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
1 points

for me, the less people there are, the better, and also in professional environments and even presentations my stutter leaves almost completely. I guess it might be because there's less pressure on me...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
1 points

It depends, how confortable to talk to a person it is. I can talk without any real problems to my friends, but cant to teachers, professors or my parents...

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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2023
1 points

Good for you. Don't paint everyone in the same brush though. It feels good in concept but we're on the mercy of other people even if we decide to be shameless. Especially with severe stutter. I c...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
1 points

Are you asking about social settings vs. professional setting? Because I have been shocked and disgusted about the way I continue to be treated. For example, I called in to the VA recently and tried...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
1 points

Several examples… I had a (very wealthy) senior board member of a non-profit publicly tell me to “spit it out” in front of the entire board while doing a complex planning session. That phrase is pre...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2023
1 points

I feel intimidated not just around authority figures but also around those who appear to be confident and posh (maybe it's my insecurity at work). There are days where I would feel great and confident...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2023
1 points

Same. I get nervous and experience more blocks when i'm speaking to like my boss or other people at my job who are higher positions than myself. Also, the few times I have been pulled over by police I...

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Power Dynamics & IntimidationAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 4, 2023
1 points

¿Do we fear autorithy?

¿Do we fear autorithy? Today I went to a shop to deliver some samples of my business. A nice lady attended me. Everything went good. Not completely fluent because I was nervous but at least 80%. Sud...

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Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2023
1 points

You could speak to your instructors individually and let them know about ur problem and how it affects you emotionally. If you let them know a few times they wont put you in any awkward situations. Ho...

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commentr/StutterSep 28, 2023
1 points

I'm in the same situation and I understood a bunch of things. First of all, you'll stutter a lot in front of certain people, who generally have a lot of authority like your boss for example or people ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightPower Dynamics & Intimidation