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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2013
3 points

I pace back and forth myself. I think if I started walking outside I might end up at 7-11 having no idea how I got there. I walk and like space out....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2013
1 points

Ya that tends to sum me up pretty good too. Sometimes i feel like i know what people are thinking just by subtle things that others don't tend to pick up on. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2013
1 points

>We all stuttered as children, before we actually believed we had a problem. The moment we stopped just stuttering and became stutterers was the moment we started worrying about it. Hit me like a ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2013
2 points

Pretty much explains me too. I suppose I was always too busy not talking and observing how people talk and react to do much talking myself when I was younger. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2013
3 points

Wow never thought my sensitivity and stuttering would linked. he pretty much described me haha. i wonder how they are linked...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2013
1 points

Everyone who has both talked to me and read what I've written knows that I'm a much better writer than I am a speaker. I'd consider myself an almost-moderately-ok writer (which is certainly a lot bett...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2013
0 points

I'm not naive. I can tell you that. I might be conceited at times.. But that has nothing to do with this. I don't stutter when I'm alone. It's because I'm not scared. I don't judge myself. When I tal...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2013
2 points

I am in a similar boat as you. I'm 21, and a senior in college. Sometimes my stutter can be controlled, but other times it gets the best of me. When one of my professors asked me a question in class t...

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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2013
1 points

So much feels.... Especcialy the part of anticpating in sound, rather than thought. It's so rooted in our brains. I've found a video (from this sub) that explains it IMO spot-on: http://www.youtube.co...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2013
1 points

Addressing your last paragraph, especially when you say "I'm wasting their time." That's entirely not true. There are those VERY few people that don't understand what stuttering means and think it's s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2013
3 points

thats really weird how it just came about also dont tell yourself you cant talk or that its going happen the next time you talk, if you say cant or think its going to happen ,then it will happen stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJan 24, 2013
0 points

Stuttering Stories

Stuttering Stories I had a stutter starting from basically when I could talk, and I went to a speech therapist starting when i was about 9. I went for 4 years, and 'graduated' in 7th grade, I've barel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2013
2 points

Everything feels perfectly spot on for me. Had especially never thought of the part about that people that stutter because we are trying to talk perfectly. But it really feels right. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterJan 15, 2013
1 points

Has anyone else here developed a stutter?

Has anyone else here developed a stutter? Hi, I'm new here and just testing the waters and thought I'd ask if anyone else has had a similar experience to me. My speech difficulties are a relatively ne...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringTrauma & Psychological+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2013
1 points

Take a breath, try not to think about what exactly you want to say, but maybe the idea that you are trying to get across. Then, you can subconsciously put this idea into your own words as you spew it ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2013
1 points

I also have the problem that my inner voice is running ahead of me and just stops at a red flag/ hard word. I don't have this with reading because I control how far I read. How does one clear the min...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2013
1 points

Damn, that's the first time I hear something which I can relate 100% to. I use the same techniques you described. And some other, too. Like fillwords for example. That really is the best advice. Keep...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight
postr/StutterDec 10, 2012
1 points

How do you deal with oral exams?

How do you deal with oral exams? Soon I will be having two oral exams. Both will be in English, which is only my second language and has me stuttering a lot more than I already do, so I guess most of ...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2012
1 points

I noticed myself starting to do that, so I will close my eyes and try to talk really slow. I try to pretend that I am trying to relax and get a hold of my thoughts. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2012
3 points

I can understand this concern, but in a way it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy. If you believe that a stutterer can't command respect, then that filters through into your body language and all of t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more