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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2013
1 points

I think it would be nice to just come out and tell people I stutter but... I'm scared that one, I'd stutter while doing so and 2) I'm scared of what people might think. I know that's stupid. I mean, I...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2013
3 points

I use it so much. New people I've met (that don't know I stutter) usually point it out to me. ...

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commentr/StutterAug 26, 2013
1 points

I hated this to till I started going to therapy. My stuttering has lowered drastically and situations like these no longer give me anxiety attacks. What works for me is to advertise the first day of S...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2013
7 points

If you plan on saying any words at all during the year (likely), people are going to find out eventually that you stutter. See this as an opportunity for 1. People to find out on your terms 2. You t...

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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2013
2 points

Advertise at the beginning of the podcast. Nothing major just "Hey just want to let you know I have a stutter so if you hear me having trouble with any words that's what that is" You will be amazed a...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersHope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2013
1 points

All of the advice below is great advice. Now I try to tell people when I first meet them that I have a stutter. Also singing does help, I performed in an a cappella group my last three years in colleg...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersSituational VariabilityPositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2013
1 points

I think being in that zen like state is key. Once I accepted that stuttering would be a normal part of my life, and it became easier to just start talking with people. For me, it has helped to mention...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2013
3 points

I did some speak therapy a while back and they taught me to tell people I stutter. Initially I thought the idea absurd, I felt like I was in therapy so people wouldn't notice my stutter. I gave it a...

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postr/StutterAug 12, 2013
4 points

Problems with starting school.

Problems with starting school. As we all know, school requires talking and communication, and I do try to reach out to the people sitting around me and try to make friends. The issue is I stutter pret...

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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2013
1 points

I have been teaching middle and high school for a few years now, and like many other teachers here, I am up front about it at the start of the year. I think it really does help to create a supportive...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
School & Academic LifeDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2013
2 points

Sometimes I tell people that I have a stutter too but sometimes its just too embarrassing and/or I end up stuttering on that too; but, thankfully, not as often! I often will change certain words as w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2013
2 points

Saying my name is where I first stuttered in public. I didn't stutter until I was about 13, and managed to "hide" it by saying things that I knew would be easier to get out. Can't really change your...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2013
2 points

Well, on the phone, when I started to stutter and they were all "HELLO HELLO" I just calmly asked them to be patient as I have a stutter. They were very understanding, as most people tend to be....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2013
2 points

I have a similar fear of telephone interviews and have had a number of them recently. I find them to be extremely anxiety provoking. One thing I would recommend is to disclose that you stutter early...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2013
1 points

I think I might email the interviewer today about the stutter, but I feel that would be awkward. Did you just say you had a stutter beforehand on the phone?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2013
2 points

Dont tell them you have a stutter. Employers tend to judge based on a stutter. Something about not being able to communicate. Just remember to talk slow, do some practice on words you know you will st...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2013
7 points

I'm a recent Master's graduate, have stuttered since childhood and still do sometimes. I gave a bunch of interviews in the past couple of months. Primary advice, there is no need to tell them that you...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2013
4 points

i keep delaying because i have too much to write but let me start with something. Theres no real rule on whether to disclose or not to disclose (tell them you stutter). However I would not recommend t...

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2013
1 points

I always disclose my stutter. It lessens any fear I have about the possible reaction I may receive when I block and usually that helps smooth out my speech :) I would also recommend therapy and lookin...

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postr/StutterFeb 12, 2013
9 points

some rants?

some rants? Just found this subreddit seconds ago. Never thought it actually exist. I'm stuttering since child (now I'm 20). I never met any person who stutter in my country. The community around me ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more