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commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2015
1 points

wow. Didn't know this subreddit existed. I've stuttered all of my life and up until my mid 30's it really fucked me up. At its worst i couldn't get a bus, order a drink at the bar, go to job interview...

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commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2015
2 points

Oh god,If I wanted do write something like this,this is exactly how I would express it.You were spot on for everything. Sometimes I do wonder would people talk to me more (even though I'm fine with h...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2015
3 points

So when she asked you why you repeated a word you laughed at yourself instead of telling her you stutter? When someone suggested you watch the King's Speech (who sounds like she was your friend by t...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2015
1 points

You are really doing a lot of guessing here. You do not know these women are not turning into long term relationships because of your speech impediment, in fact you readily admit that no one has told ...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2015
1 points

Great post. I think each stutterer needs to find their own way out at the end of the day. Lately, i've just been observing all my abnormal behaviour and asking myself "what would a person without a...

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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2015
1 points

Thanks for sharing your experience. Yeh, I hope I showed in my post that my stutter isn't something that went away or that i'm suddenly very brave. It's that....i take the punches...i fall down...but ...

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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2015
1 points

I've been in education for many years, and I obviously kept going even when my stutter was punching my face a lot. I'm not sure that counts as "doing it", though - I mean, it's not like I willed the s...

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postr/StutterJan 28, 2015
5 points

Motivation: Teaching English in Japan

Motivation: Teaching English in Japan Hello fellow stutters/stammers/speech impedimenters, So this is a post where I talk about myself but it's not to brag. It's to provide some sort of proof that h...

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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2015
1 points

I read a lot of books and did all the therapy as a kid, but now that I'm 21 I feel like I've matured enough to finally try applying what I read. It's still a daily struggle, but I've improved a lot I ...

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postr/StutterJan 24, 2015
7 points

its all in your head

its all in your head this stutter shit is all mental real talk, for me anyway. If i dont think about it I'm golden. I just cant figure out how to get it out of my head. Everytime i do notice im fluent...

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postr/StutterJan 22, 2015
1 points

Digital versus IRL

Digital versus IRL Frequent lurker, first time poster. I'm 32 and like many of the folks here, have been stuttering for as long as I can remember. About a year ago I started sim racing on /r/iRacing ...

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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2015
1 points

the thing that made me start to get it was realizing that though i thought i accepted my stutter (since duh, i know i stutter), I was really just acknowledging it rather than accepting it. I was simul...

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postr/StutterJan 11, 2015
26 points

Today, I let it all out

Today, I let it all out Today, I did something I never did and thought that I probably never will; I went to people I know and deliberately talked to them about my stutter. It's been 20 years, life i...

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2015
1 points

Thank you for taking the time to write that. I actually have joined a group that meets weekly to practice for about a month now. Its been good, it helped me do a presentation at school. I'm actuall...

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commentr/StutterJan 8, 2015
3 points

That attitude alone is what has helped me overcome much of my stuttering. Just like you said, thinking "f*ck it, I can do this" and actually talking without fear. Keep it up, get motivated by your pro...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2015
1 points

That's why you first need to change your expectations, your beliefs. Try to gain confidence, be more positive! That's the most effective way to stop stuttering! Most people go for techniques like air...

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2014
1 points

The analogy is supposed to illustrate the process of speaking, not the emotional side of it. Also note that ofc confidence isn't the answer to everyone, I just want to clarify that it applies to me....

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commentr/StutterDec 28, 2014
2 points

it's always good to try and get some sort of grip on your own stutter, to get acquainted with yourself that way. i imagine there are numerous ways of representing it, in terms that make sense to the s...

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commentr/StutterDec 10, 2014
2 points

Hey fellow blocker! I know exactly what you mean as for the other people commenting in this thread. You're not alone. It really is about self confidence. I've found that reallllly focusing on the time...

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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2014
1 points

Yeah been to a few and will keep going. I have yet met anyone who isn't glad they want. For many people, their first conference is pretty eye opening. I really don't like to hype stuff and I am reserv...

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