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commentr/StutterAug 2, 2016
2 points

As a mother of 2 young boys, I realized I was a self imposed mute due to my stuttering. Their father was a confident fearless role model. I was a wall flower and I wanted my sons to grow up with a mot...

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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2016
1 points

You get to choose whether your opinion or their opinion is worth more. I think you need to take a lighter approach on your speech. Being hard on yourself makes it worse. It sounds like you have friend...

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postr/StutterJul 25, 2016
20 points

Challenge Yourself! Week #1. Want a speech related challenge? Click here.

Challenge Yourself! Week #1. Want a speech related challenge? Click here. The best way to improve your life is coming out of your comfort zone, this applies even more with a stutter. Challenging yours...

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commentr/StutterJul 25, 2016
1 points

Stop caring about what others think. Everyone tells you that and it is true, but also damn hard. We've all been through this same stuff and at the moment you start caring less, it will get better. It ...

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
2 points

>I'm feeling all sorts of anxiety from seeing people meeting other new people, talking, and such. Hey, it's a bunch of strangers meeting each other. Some of them might become friends. Lots of poss...

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2016
9 points

So this is something that I'm just now finally getting a handle on, but it's been instrumental in overcoming my issues: I've stopped caring if other people hear me stutter. I understand that won't hap...

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postr/StutterJul 21, 2016
17 points

How having a retail job helped me with my stammer.

How having a retail job helped me with my stammer. I recently applied for and got a job in retail despite having a stammer. I had never been to an job interview before this one, and was scared shitles...

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commentr/StutterJul 20, 2016
5 points

It doesnt really matter what they thought of you, what does matter though, is what you think of yourself and your stammer. Do you come out of the situation saying, "Oh no, I messed that up completely,...

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2016
2 points

I can say that I dont stutter at all, when I have used acid or X in the past, but when I wake up, its always back. now weed used to help me alot... now it seems as though I stutter worse when I smoke,...

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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2016
1 points

This is a great video. Its pretty clear that stuttering wasn't the main purpose of this talk. Its about taking responsibility for your problems, which they did. And they may talk better than most flue...

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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2016
1 points

How do you think speech occurs? Are you conciously focused on trying to move your mouth and tounge when you talk to articulate more? Because I have found out like many others that speech is a natural...

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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2016
2 points

Well i didnt really feel much different to be honest, i just noticed that i almost completely stopped stuttering from 1 week to the other. Like i said, maybe graduating from university boosted my self...

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commentr/StutterJul 13, 2016
1 points

I stopped caring about my stutter a couple of years ago and my life has become so much better ...

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commentr/StutterJul 13, 2016
2 points

What changed internally while speaking fluent and while stuttering? Like beliefs perceptions etc Did you get a job promotion? did you learn to finally express yourself after not being yourself for...

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commentr/StutterJul 10, 2016
1 points

I know the goals are eloquence, assertive self acceptance and joy of speaking instead of fluency. Outsiders however don't really know what we mean by that. I'm in a rut at the moment. My coach and I w...

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postr/StutterJul 6, 2016
7 points

Contrary to popular belief, first impressions don't mean that much.

Contrary to popular belief, first impressions don't mean that much. I'm sure a lot of us have heard "You have to make a good first impression!" So when you meet new people you try really hard not to ...

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commentr/StutterJun 2, 2016
4 points

As a life-long stutterer, I also sometimes get frustrated by this sub. My stutter is manageable, but it definitely shows and affects my life. The thing is, I see it as a good thing. It forces me to ...

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2016
3 points

In the strictest sense he's correct -- it is not stuttering that prevents you from doing x, y or z. Rather it is your reaction to stuttering that influences how you respond to certain events. You clea...

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2016
1 points

'Easier' is the problem. Just because it's not easy doesn't make it not doable. It seems like a large portion of people have given up hope here and just accepted oblivion. There's living and breathing...

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commentr/StutterJun 1, 2016
6 points

They're ignorant about stuttering, plain and simple. Sucking it up never fixed anything. But Doing something to have a chance at changing it is right in my opinion. You can only do so much in terms of...

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