commentr/StutterJune 2, 2016

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As a life-long stutterer, I also sometimes get frustrated by this sub. My stutter is manageable, but it definitely shows and affects my life. The thing is, I see it as a good thing. It forces me to think before I speak, as I don't want to waste those precious words. It forces me to rely on myself, rather than run around asking for help with most simple tasks. It forces me to control my emotions, my mind, otherwise I won't be able to speak. It forces me to prepare for situations I otherwise wouldn't prepare for. It sure takes a lot, but it also gives, and I feel that many people here forget that. I just saw a woman do push ups, pull ups and squats; she didn't have arms or legs. What is stutter compared to *that*? My condition taught me so many lessons, I honestly don't know if I would trade it for anything else. After all, everyone struggles with something, overtly or covertly, and it's all about how you deal with it.

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Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability

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Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride