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commentr/StutterJan 24, 2016
1 points

Imo you should really disclose it before hand, I would expect someone who was deaf, etc to disclose it before hand as well....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2016
2 points

It's better to tell them you do beforehand. If you don't, it'll add more pressure on you during the date. Their reaction and/or trying to hide it will add issues...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2016
2 points

I personally cant ask out/meet someone on a date until i've told them I stutter (and make sure they understand it isn't just a minor detail)....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2016
1 points

> I have not told anyone yet that I stutter, but I plan to do so soon, since it would remove a lot of the pressure. I just don't know how to take the the big step. Maybe you can use this: "Hello,...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2016
2 points

I have not told anyone yet that I stutter, but I plan to do so soon, since it would remove a lot of the pressure. I just don't know how to take the the big step....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2016
2 points

Yeah, why not. If they don't wanna talk about it it's also okay for me. But maybe it can be a relieve for both. ...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2016
2 points

Yes. I've been in that precise situation recently with a covert stutterer who couldn't hide it successfully. There was a wonderful "one of us" moment and that was about it. He seemed relieved. How...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterJan 20, 2016
3 points

If a stranger with a stutter talked to you, and you noticed he/she was stressed out about it, would you admit that you also stutter?

If a stranger with a stutter talked to you, and you noticed he/she was stressed out about it, would you admit that you also stutter? I don't know if it would be awkward or a relief thing. I want to kn...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2016
3 points

I think it got much easier but it's partially because I also opened up a lot and just started talking openly about it. If you show people that you're comfortable with your speech, they'll be comfortab...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2016
9 points

Hi there! I'm a person who stutters (probably a 7/10) who is currently studying to become a preschool teacher -- needless to say, I'm around children a lot and need to explain things to them quite a b...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersSchool & Academic LifeIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2015
9 points

I thought I was the only one. For the most part, it bothers me because I start feeling the struggle of how hard it can be to get some words out. When I see the physical strain that they are having, I...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 23, 2015
4 points

When I got my internship at an aerospace engineering company, the interview process was actually fun (whoda thunk it right?) I went in completely unprepared as far as my speech goes. I had my talking ...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2015
4 points

I see two basic options: you acknowledge it outright or you don't. There are pros and cons to both. If you acknowledge, you're opening up discussion with the interviewer that you are aware you stutt...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2015
3 points

As I get older, my stuttering has turned into stress/excitement induced stuttering. I went through years of speech therapy, so for the most part I have my stuttering under control (I work as a custome...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightDating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterNov 29, 2015
6 points

Stutter on your voicemail?

Stutter on your voicemail? As a PWS, I spend some time trying to set up various voicemail options... and spend serious time trying to get my voicemail as stutter free as possible. I’m curious who el...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterNov 11, 2015
6 points

What type of stutter am I?

What type of stutter am I? I've been stuttering for as long as I can remember (im 20). Its weird for me. Growing up I stuttered a shit ton and everyone in class knew I had a speech problem. Slowly tra...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2015
1 points

I say something like "I stutter and I guess it's happening" and laugh and keep talking. If it's really bad and I don't feel like laughing, I say "sorry, I have a stutter."...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2015
2 points

Thanks for the advice, I may open with telling the room that I have a stutter. Might as well get it out there. ...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2015
6 points

Putting myself in the right frame of mind usually helps me. Im sure youre like many others, counting down the students to see which paragraph you'll be reading and scanning through it for words you ma...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringPreparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterNov 10, 2015
5 points

Some progress... some tips

Some progress... some tips Hi guys! So for a long time I denied my stutter but my dad stutters and it's genetic. Looking back, it has DRAMATICALLY impacted my life. Recently, I realized two things t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionGenetic & Family FactorsMindset shift+2 more