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postr/StutterMar 24, 2026
15 points

I think i lost my chance with her

I think i lost my chance with her so theres this girl ive known for a while and my stutter kinda goes up and down, it has never been that bad whenever i talked to her. i like her and ik she likes me b...

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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2026
1 points

I’ve paid for the services of escorts. I was in an 11 year drought. I finally gave in about 2 years ago. I think you should do it. You’ll eventually realize that it’s not all that. It’s just a feeling...

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postr/StutterMar 23, 2026
7 points

How do you guys (and girls) approaching someone?

How do you guys (and girls) approaching someone? Hi everyone, I'm 17 y/o with a mild to moderate stutter. In the past, stuttering was a huge social barrier for me, but for the past couple of years, I ...

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commentr/StutterMar 22, 2026
2 points

I used to date an SLP grad student. Idk if she loved me or was using me as a case study lmao...

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commentr/StutterMar 22, 2026
1 points

In terms of the academic part professors/TAs were accommodating. Career/Money wise I think it paid off (at least when I graduated). The hardest part for me was the social part, didnt make many friends...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
1 points

Not over night no, they don’t just wake up one day and decide they aren’t attracted to you anymore, but the attraction can definitely fade over time and it’s pretty common that it does, and everyone h...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
1 points

Also a girl doesn’t date you for years and just decided your ugly 😂 and i never said ALL women …that’s your problem ...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
1 points

But also, a girl doesn’t stay with you for years like you say, then suddenly the no confidence becomes the issue years later and they dump you for it , that just doesn’t happen. There is definitely m...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
1 points

You were talking about dating multiple women, your post comes across as you’re giving dating advice for someone who stutters, not a long term relationship advice. Your McDonald’s thing is just bullshi...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
1 points

We were dating for years and years and you talking about she wasn’t attracted to me wtf are you taking about 🤦🏾‍♂️...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
1 points

OP if you dated 20 womans why no one stayed with you? The issue is in you can't sustain long relationship? ...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
13 points

As someone who stutters, and also had multiple long term relationships and also dated multiple girls, I completely disagree with this post. The McDonalds kiosk thing, they are there for convenience,...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
7 points

As a guy who hasn’t still had any form of experience with women at the age of 28, I find this tip quite insightful. Thank you for sharing this! My stutter is usually severe and I always thought that...

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postr/StutterMar 20, 2026
88 points

I’ve dated multiple women and one thing I realize

I’ve dated multiple women and one thing I realize One thing that made me lose every women I’ve ever loved is, Women get repulsed when your “too insecure” They rather you stutter and have your face scr...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2026
2 points

I’m in my second year at college and you’d be amazed how many people don’t care about a stutter. Life is infinitely better after highschool. I’m currently going for pre-med, I’m in a sorority, dating ...

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commentr/StutterMar 19, 2026
10 points

1) went to college 2) took a gap semester to join the military reserves 3) graduated college 4) got a job as a software engineer (still in the military) Job interviews were brutal with my stutter. Bu...

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commentr/StutterMar 19, 2026
15 points

1. Joined military. Which at first sucked, but then turned out really well. Got promoted above others. 2. Was a correctional officer for a bit. Again got moved up before others: didn’t care for it th...

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postr/StutterMar 19, 2026
2 points

Is it a potential relationship deal-breaker if one party stutters?

Is it a potential relationship deal-breaker if one party stutters? Asking cause yeah I’m the party in this case. It’s tough being a man trying to find a woman as it is but the fact that I stutter make...

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commentr/StutterMar 17, 2026
2 points

Yeah with girls its usually fine for some reason. God plays some weird jokes. Also i guess you should own it. Most girls will be fine with it if you are fine with it, as with most things. ...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2026
1 points

 I understand. There isn’t really a telltale sign that a girl may want to be asked out unless she tells you outright. If you two are good friends and enjoy each other’s company then that is a good eno...

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