I’ve dated multiple women and one thing I realize

I’ve dated multiple women and one thing I realize One thing that made me lose every women I’ve ever loved is, Women get repulsed when your “too insecure” They rather you stutter and have your face scrunch up in front of 1000 people and have them laugh and call you retarded rather then you say “Hey can you just order the food for us” Or when you go to McDonald’s and you use the kiosk they always like “Like don’t we just order at the register” I can go on and on but I’ve dated 15-20 women and they might be kinda “ehh 🤷🏾‍♂️” about your stutter (meaning they don’t love it but they don’t hate it” but the #1 turning off is you being “shy” they hate that 💩 more then your stutter