commentr/StutterMarch 21, 2026

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Not over night no, they don’t just wake up one day and decide they aren’t attracted to you anymore, but the attraction can definitely fade over time and it’s pretty common that it does, and everyone has a breaking point when they finally leave, just like it can for guys as well. The attraction fading is a more plausible cause for the relationship ending than the confidence suddenly being the issue after years later. Your words were “every woman you’ve ever loved”, how is that not implying that it’s at least most woman 🤣 tbh, i think your advice is borderline toxic if anything. no one with any ounce of compassion would prefer a guy embarrasses themselves over something so trivial such as ordering food, and if you are dating anyone that would prefer you have people laugh at you and humiliate yourself rather than simply ordering from a kiosk or ordering for them, then who the fuck have you been dating, because any normal person with even a slight bit of common decency wouldn’t want that for anyone, never mind their partner. You’re here encouraging people to embarrass themselves claiming it will get them a girlfriend 🤣 it’s laughable really.

Themes

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships

Subthemes

Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance