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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2026
3 points

Other people's opinions about you shouldn't be the cause of your death. The fact that they're laughing about your stutter shows that they're not the kind of people you want to be around. I suffer fr...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2026
13 points

I would suggest speaking to a regular therapist. Not a speech therapist. I found diving into the inner emotions, feelings and unearthing some of my anxieties with a professional was more helpful than ...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2026
5 points

I don’t take medication for my actual stutter. I take medication for my anxiety, which in turn helps me feel more confident in social situations and interactions. It doesn’t cure stuttering but alle...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2026
3 points

One of the best ways to manage a fear of something you want to do, is to do the thing afraid. Relationships are a series of moments of uncertainty, and being vulnerable in those moments of uncertaint...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2026
1 points

Not everybody believes in taking medications for their anxiety. Each to their own. If you have severe social anxiety because of your stutter, then why not give it a try in order to alleviate the anx...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2026
3 points

No. I hate it when people dismiss the experiences of what stuttering really is and try to make it seem like this easy thing to deal with when it’s not. I also hate when people try to make it seem lik...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2026
5 points

What you're saying makes complete sense, and your self-awareness is impressive. When stakes feel low (strangers, casual friends), the 'not caring' strategy works because your nervous system is calm. B...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMar 28, 2026
11 points

Afraid to converse with my girlfriend sometimes

Afraid to converse with my girlfriend sometimes For some background, I’ve been stuttering for most of my life, and I’ve faced bullying and insults because of it. For a long time, I eventually learned ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2026
2 points

Or the people that seem to be downvoting them are people that are genuinely annoyed with your harmful beliefs you have been spreading around. The victim blaming, toxic positivity, there is a differenc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2026
4 points

Why do you keep twisting people’s words around just so you can be right and make people feel bad about themselves? Because all I said was how your posts are harming the community. Never have I said I...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2026
2 points

This happens to me constantly 😭 Literally when I’m talking about something important or just something positive in general, somehow it’s always getting changed to my stutter…. “You sounded so fluen...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 27, 2026
6 points

Stuttered In my Presentation

Stuttered In my Presentation I have a stutter on my name i feel like my stutter mostly comes from anxiety somwtimes I speak great other days if im not bold or think too much I stutter it sucks my tea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2026
2 points

For me its not pauses, its changing my pace.  What ever way feels like I will get stuck, I try to do the opposite, change my pace and sometimes it feels like a substitute even though its the same thin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2026
7 points

I did different things but my sessions with Pysch helps alot and after that I also went to Speech Therapist. Pysch told me why you stammer and what will be your cause for this, Psych told me relation ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringTrauma & PsychologicalFluency Techniques+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2026
3 points

I don't have a mild-stutter. My whole childhood was spent in speech therapy, one of whom said I was essentially a lost cause and actually suggested I learn sign language. Every single horror story of...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2026
-1 points

I think we agree more than we disagree. It's just that there are too many variables mentioned in this particular case and too much of a tendency for people to cry 'poor me' when it may not be justifie...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2026
9 points

There’s a difference to getting rejected because of negative traits and personalities, and getting rejected because of a disability you have no control over. It’s like saying that white women die of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2026
1 points

The fact that I stutter myself changes the nuance here. My stutter may actually be worse than yours, yet I consciously make an effort to speak slowly. You may have taken my comment the wrong way — but...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2026
-2 points

Again, people who are 100% fluent and excellent candidates get ghosted by recruiters all the time. They are constantly talking to candidates and they could find better candidates than you. The employe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2026
2 points

It's good that you are seeing hypersensitivity. This is something we can address ourselves. Yes, I'd imagine most if not all stutterers are very sensitive about public shame and embarrassment from the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more