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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2019
6 points

Totally agree - this describes every group encounter for me, and also describes how one-on-one encounters usually go much better. I think it has partially to do with timing - a group dynamic has its ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Audience Scale & Group SizeAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2019
2 points

I get that momentum thing. It is worse for me in loud environments or with lots of particularly out-going people. And feeling ignored sucks. Especially if it is a pain in the tit to speak. I guess p...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Audience Scale & Group SizeAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterOct 6, 2019
54 points

I find it EXTREMELY difficult to gain respect and be assertive. I don't feel like a "man".

I find it EXTREMELY difficult to gain respect and be assertive. I don't feel like a "man". I'd like to believe I'm a well dressed and well presented person. I keep clean and put effort into how I appe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2019
2 points

Thank you for the amazing advice, I really appreciate it! I’ll be leading independent study groups, so anywhere from 1 student to 120. That’s kinda the part that scares me, there’s so many unknown f...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
School & Academic LifeAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2019
3 points

Great talk. I think he rehearsed his script many times. Also, “performing” can make stuttering less pronounced. It’s the unscripted spontaneous moments that are hardest for me. Especially on grou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Preparation & RehearsalPropositionality & WeightAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2019
2 points

I know the feeling. Group discussions are difficult because I either end up getting cut off and are afraid to speak or have to take an extra second and the conversation has already moved on....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2019
6 points

Many people don't even stutter when talking to kids, and interviews are literally the Kryptonite for most PWS. But lest just say her interview is an accurate representation of her speech: I like to ...

Social & RelationshipsParent & Caregiver
Audience Scale & Group SizeFamily Support & ConflictTreatment Decisions
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2019
1 points

When I went to church while on vacation the priest stuttered. When I heard him in the beginning, the way he talked initially already caught my attention but I blew it off thinking no way. Then during ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2019
2 points

The comments above about not finishing sentences are huge. ​ As much as possible, attempt to maintain eye contact during conversations (just like speaking with anyone really). It can be ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
postr/StutterJul 4, 2019
4 points

Competing for girls

Competing for girls I've been exposing my stutter to a lot of people lately and to my surprise I've found that a lot of people, even girls I'm into, don't seem to mind, which is awesome! However, one...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
postr/StutterJun 19, 2019
18 points

My stutter is subject to whom i’m talking

My stutter is subject to whom i’m talking Hey guys, i’ve been stuttering for quite a sometime now(since aged 12 now i’m 25). An interesting thing about my stutter is that it becomes bad and good depen...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & IntimidationAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2019
7 points

I know and I know I'm being silly. It's not stuttering in front of him that concerns me it's the other guests....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
postr/StutterMar 6, 2019
15 points

A Social, antisocial Stammerer.

A Social, antisocial Stammerer. Hello Everyone. I'm 22 and from the UK and am new to Reddit so please bear with me. I've stuttered for as long as I can remember and although I'm fairly 'fluent' and p...

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Audience Scale & Group SizeAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterFeb 21, 2019
2 points

Does stuttering worsen around your crush?

Does stuttering worsen around your crush? I have a crush on this guy who has a stutter. Sometimes it’s really bad and sometimes it’s hardly noticeable. I’ve noticed that it tends to get a lot worse wh...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2019
1 points

I am the same way about the large groups, would rather be in smaller groups. I wouldn’t try to get him to try to participate if he doesn’t want too, as he gets more comfortable with those people he wi...

Social & Relationships
Audience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2019
2 points

Thank you so much! He did have a sheet of paper of names to read and he practiced a bunch which I think really helped from what he said! Something a little tangential: I do notice that he tends to li...

Social & Relationships
Audience Scale & Group Size
postr/StutterFeb 11, 2019
1 points

Environmental stuttering

Environmental stuttering A lot of stutterers I know stutter regardless of the situation they’re in. I, on the other hand, stutter only in certain situations. For example, when I’m casually talking to ...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Propositionality & WeightAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2019
5 points

Good for you, a nightclub is probably the toughest place for stutterer's because it's usually extremely superficial so something like a stutter would be a complete dealbreaker. No idea how you compete...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Audience Scale & Group SizeStigma & BullyingDating & Romance
postr/StutterFeb 10, 2019
4 points

HOW TO deal with people who have NO patience?

HOW TO deal with people who have NO patience? Not even strangers but even with my family members, they often don't have the patience to let me finish. Not in a rude way but they just don't have patien...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionListener ReactionsAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2019
1 points

These are super handy. Except sometimes I get nervous because my McDonalds has an employee stationed to watch you place your order so you don't mess up, so they're just staring at all of us. It's th...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentAudience Scale & Group Size