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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2026
3 points

I'm sorry to hear that. There are some really bad moments from time to time. But I can say that with years of practicing in uncomfortable situations and gaining some confidence (generally by not carin...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2026
25 points

8 years ago. I stuttered so bad in a job interview for my first big job after college- maybe worse than ever. Went home and cried. Felt like the worst day of my entire life. 8 years later, I’m at th...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
3 points

Try not to let the stutter define who you are as a person. Does it cause a few setbacks in your life? Absolutely. As hard as it is, you have to accept your stutter first. Build confidence by appreciat...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
17 points

You need to move past it. People are attracted to confidence. I’ve never had any issues with mine and dating. It is what it is, I acknowledge it if need be and move on. End of day, you wouldn’t da...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
1 points

You’ll never know until you try, so go for it! Do not let fear of stuttering dictate your destiny! You’ll always regret not trying, and the longer you leave it, the greater chance you’ll remain in th...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
1 points

The realest answer is that it's gotta be a choice that comes from you, from within. But I'll see if I can offer a few ideas. 1. Locus of control. Even with your best efforts, you can't completely pic...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
1 points

Never! I have a moderate/severe stutter but also a wonderful career as a CPA, live on a lake, am a wildlife photographer, have been married over 40 years, have 3 grown sons, 2 daughters-in-law and an ...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
1 points

There's has to be a way to train myself to always be confident. I've tried working out, hanging out more with my friend, going out to places where I need to talk. It just doesn't work ...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
11 points

Love seeing this. Feel liked a reminder that days may be tough, but you are not alone, and are capable of anything. ...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2026
3 points

Hey I'm a stutterer who became a doctor. I really struggled during the first part of med school but gradually found my groove. I did go to speech therapy when I was at my worst, and it got me out of t...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2026
1 points

I largely agree with you that it's naive to think of stuttering as a physiological brain-based disorder only. At least in my case I got a lot of evidence its a systems issue comprising many parts, of ...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2026
1 points

I’m sorry you’re feeling this way, and believe me, I’ve been through those moments too. To be honest, that mindset is not helpful at all. You need to take control of your stutter and your life. Go se...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2026
3 points

My son (11) did benefit from some speech therapy. He learned about stuttering and some different strategies to help him get thru blocks. I think most of all it helped his confidence and that has helpe...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2026
3 points

I’m 35, and I’ve met one peer who stuttered in the wild, and through that SLP, I met some others that were older than me at the time. They had full fledged careers and it was good to have that support...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2026
4 points

You say you have a mild stutter and that you can be fluent to an extent. I have the worst type of stutter known to man, severe as can be, gut wrenching type of stutter, and I don’t have problems with ...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2026
2 points

Never let your stuttering silence your dreams. Your voice deserves to be heard, even if it stumbles sometimes 🧡...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
3 points

Man I’ve only been in this stuttering sub for only a few days and I’m already sick and fucking tired of this cure talk. I’ve stuttered my entire life. It’s a bitch. It seems like a lot of people talk ...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
2 points

Same I'm a arab/Jamaican male 22 in nyc who stutters with mostly the same problems. I had therapy in school but that didn't seem to help as much and still now have the same anxiety / speech problems. ...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
12 points

All of my past girlfriends and my wife told me one of the things that attracted them to me was my stutter. A stutter is disarming and makes you unique and thoughtful. These are highly attractive quali...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2026
2 points

This conversation has been mostly poisoned by the use of the word cure. Is there a simple cure for stuttering? No. Is there a set practice of exercises or speech therapy that can be used to attain flu...

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Medicalization / NeurodiversityMindset shiftHope & Motivation