Try not to let the stutter define who you are as a person. Does it cause a few setbacks in your life? Absolutely. As hard as it is, you have to accept your stutter first. Build confidence by appreciating who you are despite the stutter and then go on dates. Those that judge, mock or belittle you for your stutter are NOT the people you want to be around. Also about you being short as a man, that doesn’t stop you from dating either. Some women do date short guys