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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2013
1 points

Yuuuup!!!! I do it *all* the time. "... I can't think of it! Its right on the tip of my tongue! 'Is it [insert word here]?' Yes, that's it... [continue on as though I actually said the word because 97...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2013
2 points

Sometimes I tell people that I have a stutter too but sometimes its just too embarrassing and/or I end up stuttering on that too; but, thankfully, not as often! I often will change certain words as w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2013
2 points

I also have problems with hello, and h in general. I often use brief variations of words to help me pronounce it fast. One example of a hard word is as you said, "hello". Although I often get a block ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2013
0 points

just try to forget about it, i was concious about my stutter but after a while peopel just accept it and it can make conversations more interesting and funny, in quirky weird ways. i have a problem w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindfulness & BreathingBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2013
2 points

Yeah, I think its an avoidance behaivor, you pretend that you forget something that is dificult to say (for you), sometimes you can even give clues without any problem to the other person so they can ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2013
2 points

Hmm. Hello is easy for me, but saying the whole bit on the phone is quite a challenge (working in food service and answering the phone is the hardest part). I usually just say 'hello' pause 'this is S...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2013
2 points

I do this quite often (only around people I'm not so comfortable with) and I absolutely hate it. I'm sure people just assume I'm a twit. I struggled for a long while to say the word dishwasher durin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2013
3 points

:( been there... And most of the time this happens if I'm not even nervous about speaking to the other person, sometimes this happens even if I'm happy/excited to talk to them. It's the pits when it h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2013
1 points

I think I might email the interviewer today about the stutter, but I feel that would be awkward. Did you just say you had a stutter beforehand on the phone?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2013
14 points

Ugh sorry to hear that. As someone who works virtually from my home as a Project manager across several clients for a HR company I totally understand how this feels like. I used to have a noticeable s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2013
2 points

> I have a long name that has a dozen different nicknames, and I allow people in new social situations to "name" me (introduce myself by the long name and let them choose their own nickname) so tha...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2013
2 points

In college, speaking on stage in front of industry panelists and 200 other people about my senior project. As someone with a stammer (trips over words), I was able to speak clearly and slowly, after p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2013
1 points

Oh man, in my senior year of high school a few years back, I had to do a senior presentation. I was like fucking shaking because I was so nervous. I wrote a speech and practiced it several times. My...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2013
4 points

I'm completely know what you mean! I have the same issue, whether it's saying my name, ordering food at a restaurant, or even saying the date. Haha you're not alone!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2013
1 points

This is my first reddit post ever. You saying you were cursed with a name you can not say is what made me want to post anything. I feel the same way about mine, and its honestly been my main issue wit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2013
1 points

I'm gonna try this. Nothing else has worked. Been living with a stutter my whole life...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2013
5 points

I stutter and I was a ski instructor this past winter, if that counts. To be honest, it did give me some problems, but I loved what I was doing more than I hated stuttering, so it was a good trade of...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2013
10 points

I'm a public high school teacher with 15ish years experience. Every year, the first two things out of my mouth are my name and the fact that I stutter. I then spend about 10 minutes talking about it, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2013
1 points

My mother tongue is Hindi. I am from India so I guess my english is not that bad :) And I feel I should apologize for generalizing things a bit in my earlier comment. The most enigmatic thing about s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2013
1 points

If English isn't your mother tongue, what is?! holy hell haha I was definitely REALLY emo about my stutter for a long time - I was bullied pretty bad on and off until 8th grade, and teachers would so...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+2 more