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postr/StutterMar 31, 2026
17 points

Starting internship

Starting internship I’m a speech pathology graduate student starting my internship at a hospital tomorrow. I plan on disclosing my stutter to my supervisor and speaking freely as I can :) wish me luck...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2026
8 points

All my friends and classmates have gotten used to my stuttering, but it's still awkward and embarrassing to speak/answer in front of an audience, and I avoid it as much as I can :(...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMar 31, 2026
4 points

Comfortability Talking to People

Comfortability Talking to People I doubt I'm the only one who feels like this. Generally, the more I know a person, the more comfortable I am talking to them. With most people, I know that they want...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterMar 30, 2026
4 points

And the Stuttering Just Dies - Part 4

And the Stuttering Just Dies - Part 4 [Hello there](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/1qxigus/and_the_stuttering_just_dies_part_3/) I had another post in mind I thought I'd write There isn't...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2026
1 points

treat them like 2 separate things. First do everything in your power to manage your social anxiety. I think most pws fall into this category where social anxiety basically cripples our ability to spea...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentAdvice Requests+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2026
4 points

Joseph Nguyen's book is really about one thing: we suffer not because of what happens **to** us, but because of what we *tell ourselves* about what happens. For people who stutter, this hits home hard...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2026
3 points

I don't have a mild-stutter. My whole childhood was spent in speech therapy, one of whom said I was essentially a lost cause and actually suggested I learn sign language. Every single horror story of...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2026
2 points

I disagree. While working a crappy fast food job as a stuttering teen, I built up my confidence and started working the drive-thru window for an hour or so on a few random shifts. I developed a funny ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2026
2 points

It's good that you are seeing hypersensitivity. This is something we can address ourselves. Yes, I'd imagine most if not all stutterers are very sensitive about public shame and embarrassment from the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2026
5 points

It’s interesting how the same anxiety can hit someone even if they hardly stutter. It sounds like you’re punishing yourself for absolutely no reason. Give yourself a break. Let yourself be imperfect l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2026
7 points

I've done great for myself despite having a very strong stutter, but goddamn I'm not ashamed to admit I still fantasize about the day I can attach a little black mirror bullshit to my temple and be ab...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterMar 26, 2026
7 points

My experience with speaking on the cambridge exam

My experience with speaking on the cambridge exam I applied for the C1 cambridge exam and I was very confident that I would be getting it. But I did not know what I would do when the speaking test ca...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationMindset shift
postr/StutterMar 25, 2026
3 points

Playing conversations in my head

Playing conversations in my head The sad thing about living with a stutter where it's not welcomed or accepted, is you always have to live on guard to protect yourself from being attacked, bullied etc...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2026
4 points

Fully agree! 100% This negative loop is what Benzos fix, but it doesn't work forever. After a while, 2-3 years on the pills, you stutter just as much with Benzos as without. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2026
3 points

Tell her about it. Maybe not in the first sentence when meeting but when you guys are having a convo. It releases lots of tension in my experience...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterMar 23, 2026
6 points

Struggling with drinking

Struggling with drinking M24 It’s a double edged sword. I just can’t take this I’ve ignored my speech disfluency for so long. Had realization the other day that made me happy cause I developed a need ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
postr/StutterMar 23, 2026
8 points

Stuttering is Mind programming? Have you thought about this

Stuttering is Mind programming? Have you thought about this I am a software engineer & do coding, i stutter only in real life but not when alone.. My mind creates overthinking & doubts before speak...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
1 points

Currently doing college. I avoid talking to people as much as possible due to my stuttering being severely worse in the last year. Havent made any friends/acquaintances in the year I have been doing i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentSchool & Academic LifeFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
1 points

This sentiment is true in the experiences I've had. I've made unbelievable progress at making my stutter my bitch the past 10 years, but it doesn't stop, it never stops gnawing at my mental state. E...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2026
2 points

I don't let stuttering consume my life my job right now is in hospitality anyway where i talk to a lot of people. But this is such a shallow assumption. So if you stutter with a family member you're ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career