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commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
3 points

Aww. If it makes you feel better I have to do it for 4-6 hours at a time and talk to 30+ people...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
School & Academic LifeAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2022
1 points

Don't put them in a team meeting. Develop an individual work relationship between yourselves and then work out. A group is much less intimidating when you know everyone in it....

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Hiding & ConcealmentPower Dynamics & IntimidationAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2022
5 points

I agree. Harder to interject with more people. Especially if you start talking at the same time as someone else. Then they talk then it goes back to you. Like I tried so hard to get it out of my mouth...

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Audience Scale & Group SizeAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2022
2 points

That's interesting, and I can see why that would be. I hope a smaller group is more comfortable for him too. I think some of our bigger voices and personalities will be absent from that group as well....

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2022
5 points

Thank you for this. This is very helpful. It's funny (maybe that's not the right word) how so much of this comes down to etiquette and manners. We have a few very prominent voices on the team, and, w...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2022
14 points

> I will say I'm going to ask him to join another team I'm putting together, one that is a lot smaller and will require more speaking. I can only speak for myself, but I am a lot more engaging in...

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commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2022
4 points

1. **Can you speak without stuttering when you’re alone?** Yes 2. **Do you speak fluently when you aren’t thinking of your stutter,** Sometimes. I have fluent days, sometimes for weeks at a t...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2022
1 points

It’s not so much about whether or not you are physically alone. It’s more of whether or not your *voice* is being (going to be) heard. PWS tend to become fluent when speaking simultaneously in a gr...

Social & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Audience Scale & Group SizeLoss of Control
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2022
1 points

To be honest I'm struggling a bit with your questions and what exactly are you asking. It seems most of these conditions are hard wired in my brain. For example - I probably stutter more in larger gro...

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Overthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & WeightAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2022
4 points

I too struggle to fit in conversations sometimes because of my stutter. Especially in larger groups of people. If it's a 3-4 people conversation I tend to be able to speak better. It's good to surroun...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2022
26 points

Do you guys also hate when a group of people, i.e., 6 stand next to each other and talk together and you have like a 0.5 sec to intercept to say something? Fucking impossible...

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Audience Scale & Group Size
postr/StutterJan 10, 2022
20 points

Stutter With Confidence #59 with Raiani Sibien - Taking Back Control Over How We Feel About Ourselves

Stutter With Confidence #59 with Raiani Sibien - Taking Back Control Over How We Feel About Ourselves https://youtu.be/MyUEfoVbS78 I had a lot of fun talking with Raiani, who works at NATO and is one...

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commentr/StutterJan 4, 2022
2 points

Hey! If you need 5-10 secs to say something, just wait. The person behind should wait too. It is just few seconds!!! Allow yourself to spend more time than the mean saying anything :)...

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commentr/StutterDec 27, 2021
2 points

I guess what you describe applies to most people who stutter. Stuttering causes a withdrawal from social interactions and then a lack of social skills. Especially in larger groups. I personally do fi...

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commentr/StutterDec 27, 2021
1 points

In a group conversation, Yes ,you are absolutely correct. It's a feeling everyone of the stuttering people have. On a good side, Listening others gives us lot of information. I hate doing school/colle...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Audience Scale & Group SizeSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2021
2 points

Stuttering can ramp up when the visual component is missing, such as on the phone or at the drive thru. This is for a couple of reasons. Because you can’t see them, you don’t have any information from...

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commentr/StutterNov 20, 2021
1 points

For some reason I speak more fluently with larger parties. I believe bc I am less nervous bc sometimes all the focus is not on you as they are chatting slung each other. But when it’s a 2 top it feels...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2021
4 points

I’m not gonna lying like when I speak to one person I have some hard time but I manage it and the person don’t even notice but in a group yes i stutter a-lot...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2021
2 points

Have you considered joining a club, that has an established structure and occasions for social gatherings? Think about what you like to do, and there is probably a club for it? I was in the same boat....

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2021
3 points

Push your self, join a club/society. Even if you hate it, just go there and try to talk to people. Whats the worse that can happen? If you don't like the people try another club/society. You will be s...

Social & Relationships
Friendships & BelongingAudience Scale & Group Size