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commentr/StutterMar 27, 2014
1 points

I'm kinda more surprised you even go to a teller. I can maybe think of two stops on my line that even have a teller, NY and Newark Penn. The rest are machine only. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2014
0 points

It's made me more empathetic, but also a better writer. "If I'm not gonna be able to express myself verbally as well as I want to, I had better be able to do it through the written word!"...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2014
10 points

It has made me a more observant person, by listening more (and speaking less), and a more empathetic person. But mostly it has (at times) made me proud of myself for how far I've come. Ten years ago I...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2014
1 points

Honestly, if I was in that situation, I would have punched that fucker in the jaw. This is unacceptable workplace bullying and harassment. Same sort of thing happened to me at work once, all be it j...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingEmployment & CareerFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2014
6 points

I worked at home depot for five years. At one point, during maybe year 2 this older guy in his late forties started making fun of my stutter. This hadn't happened since at least middle school, at lea...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2014
0 points

I am 24. I have been a stutterer my whole life. I am not able to life my life to full due to this. Mine is very extreme. Every word that requires the tongue touching the roof of my mouth, I just canno...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2014
1 points

I talked less than I could have in school, so I didn't develop the small-talk social skills, soooo I've avoided parties and meeting huge groups of new people alwaaaaays. Actually that's served more to...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceEmployment & CareerAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2014
0 points

I'm gonna be a sarcastic dick for a second, but it's pretty easy to say not to let your stutter control you when it's mild enough you can go through an entire interview and only block a few times....

Causes & VariabilitySchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2014
2 points

If you're in the US those employers not hiring you due to your stutter are breaking the law (the ADA)....

School & Work
Access & RightsEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2014
1 points

I had a moderate stutter when I went to HCRI. I couldn't hide it. The founder/CEO or whatever is kind of scammy/unscientific. The therapists are great though, and you will be fluent when you leave if...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Therapy ExperiencesAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2014
2 points

Pretty much this. I'm an SLP specializing in stuttering and I pretty consistently see clients who have been through HCRI in the past, yet still decide they want more therapy a few/many years later. S...

Therapy & ProfessionalSchool & Work
Therapy ExperiencesUnhelpful Therapy TechniquesEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2014
3 points

I lead the City of Chicago group. We have anywhere from 6-14 people at each meeting (still fairly new, only since summer 2013). We are like the Portland group described, just facilitate some starter q...

School & WorkCauses & Variability
Employment & CareerStrategic Swearing/Cursing
postr/StutterFeb 18, 2014
6 points

How to stop giving a f*** when you have been hiding your own life?

How to stop giving a f*** when you have been hiding your own life? Dear r/stutter I have seen alot of people have sucess and relief after accepting their fate as a stutterer. It feels so refreshing an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 14, 2014
7 points

I've been job hunting for the past 6 months, today my friend gave me a number to a company who's hiring and I'm too scared to call.

I've been job hunting for the past 6 months, today my friend gave me a number to a company who's hiring and I'm too scared to call. I feel like such a coward. I know that I'm going to stutter and have...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2014
1 points

I work in a video store for almost 5 years, it helped me a lot. First you are more confident, because they want something from you, not the other way around. Second, you have to talk a lot. Talking mu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
postr/StutterFeb 12, 2014
11 points

Just got a job working at a sports stadium behind the bar. Don't let your stutter control you!

Just got a job working at a sports stadium behind the bar. Don't let your stutter control you! So I just got a job working as a barman at a football stadium in Australia. It will be very busy job and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2014
1 points

I can realte to that, whenever I go for interviews or something, I do not stutter, that is because u are focused on answering thus questions and your priority is the job not your speech. and at school...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2014
1 points

I'm a manager for a major company and tend to be biased and hire people that stutter. Been battling it my whole life ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2014
2 points

I have a stutter and I'm also a journalist so using phones are obviously very important. I have a rehearsed speech that I always practice before and 99/100 I get to say it with clarity, obviously som...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2014
2 points

Reading so many of these phone-related posts makes me so glad that I really am not afraid of the phone! What helps me, i think, is the fact that the other person can't see you, so you have so many way...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesEmployment & Career