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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2016
4 points

then you go to say "god damn i sound like a pirate" and u stutter on "god" now everyone in the room is looking at you like you are a moron so you just shut up and don't speak and become a social outca...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2016
4 points

I know it is painful, but you will grow strength against it over time. I spent most of college too scared to even start a conversation with my professors. Eventually you realize that man is the sum of...

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commentr/StutterApr 20, 2016
1 points

I don't like when people make fun of stutterers. I had a classmate who had a bad stutter. I was the only one who would listen to him without judging him or telling him to spit it out....

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commentr/StutterApr 11, 2016
1 points

I remember this movie! We had to watch it in my 8th grade history class and every time the stuttering character came on screen, I was dying of embarrassment since everyone in my class knew I had a stu...

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Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2016
3 points

I remember an Adam Sandler movie where the dumbass character had a stutter... I know how you feel, I wouldn't feel bad about it but society is influenced by these things and as a result we suffer....

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Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 8, 2016
4 points

The movie "Glory" needs to cut the shit.

The movie "Glory" needs to cut the shit. Watched the movie Glory in history class and guess what characteristics the dim-witted person of the movie had? A stutter. No wonder why we have a hard time be...

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Stigma & BullyingPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2016
1 points

You're not alone man. I'm currently 18 and all my life was shaped because of my stuttering. I start stuttering when I was... well, when I was born because I stuttered for a long ass time now, I don't...

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commentr/StutterApr 1, 2016
1 points

For me, my stutter is about equal when I speak English vs. Spanish, but it's 10x worse when I'm speaking Chinese. It sucks because my Chinese is already pretty bad (I'm Chinese-American), so when I tr...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & BullyingFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2016
1 points

Yeah, I've met lots of people who laughed out loud or said "forgot your name?" while I was in the middle of stuttering, but 95% of the time, it's out of surprise or they think I'm joking around. Then ...

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commentr/StutterApr 1, 2016
1 points

I disagree, not everyone know hot to react to a stutter and may think they're being disarming saying something like forgot your name hahaaha. But if they're outright mocking you they're a cunt obvious...

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Stigma & BullyingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2016
4 points

* someone makes a joke about it while your introducing yourself? BAM! you know that person is an asshole, it may have taken you multiple conversations to learn that if you didnt stutter. * lots of...

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Stigma & BullyingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 22, 2016
2 points

Stuttering = Socially Acceptable?

Stuttering = Socially Acceptable? In my opinion, we will always be looked as, as minor and awkward/weird. Most of this is because people dont know that this is a "sickness" and not just because the pe...

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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2016
6 points

Maybe it is just the people I've talked with, but dating and the reaction of parents were huge differences. The best example I can think of is how women tend to find men who stutter "endearing" becaus...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2016
2 points

Creepy indeed. I understand that most people aren't exposed to stuttering on the daily, and I definitely don't blame them as individuals for not getting it. Stuttering awareness in general needs to i...

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Public Awareness / MediaStigma & BullyingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2016
1 points

Right? My entire attitude toward stuttering is that it shouldn't be viewed as this terrible, sad, disfiguring characteristic; and that, as a disability, it should be treated as such-- it's widely frow...

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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2016
1 points

Thank you i am really open about it abd all my close friends know about how i feel about my ummmm gift. anyways how do i deal with the people who decide to make snag remarks or make jokes about it? Th...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2016
13 points

Pep Talk

Pep Talk What's good guys. I stutter. I've wasted a huge chunk of my life because I've been afraid. I'm insecure... Boo hoo. Poor me. I've lived in fear. Guess what? I'm fed up. I found a local suppo...

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postr/StutterFeb 7, 2016
8 points

So I work with somebody else that stutters...

So I work with somebody else that stutters... And I hate it, which makes me feel like a super asshole. I have a mild stutter, most people don't even realize I stutter unless I talk to them for awhile...

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commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2016
1 points

I used a similar method when I started high school. I was in a new school where I only knew one person, and to fit in I just acted as if I was cool. It felt like I completely faked my personality at f...

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postr/StutterFeb 2, 2016
2 points

Canada - when driving across land borders - choose busy ones.

Canada - when driving across land borders - choose busy ones. Living in a country which has less social drama, and where public discussion is conducted in a more sensible way is I think a very healthy...

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