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postr/StutterJan 31, 2014
6 points

People who stutter because you talk too fast, what do you do to slow yourself down?

People who stutter because you talk too fast, what do you do to slow yourself down? I'm 27 and have had a stutter my whole life, I work in retail and although my stutter isn't as severe as others, I s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringEnergy & Biological Rhythms
postr/StutterJan 26, 2014
14 points

Stuttering;Disconnect

Stuttering;Disconnect Living as a covert stutter for 20 years has left me with a catastrophic hole in my spirit, connection to others has been skewed for so much of my life that I feel completely inhu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2014
6 points

Personally, I've found that the more you try and plan your sentence or you think it over in your head, the more you end up setting yourself up to stutter. The less concious you are about it and the le...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2014
3 points

No they don't, they just talk. They never had a need to think how to speak, only what they want to say. If there is anyone out there who knows how to become completely unself conscious, please let me ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJan 25, 2014
2 points

How do fluent people think before they speak?

How do fluent people think before they speak? It seems to me if I rehearse in my head what I wish to say, I will block on some words or I can't even get the sentence started. However, sometimes if I a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2014
3 points

Yeah man I know exactly what yore talking about! Often when I listen to myself talking in for example one of my video game live streams or some other recording, I often get surprised and cringe over h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringSeverity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2014
2 points

Haha yeah man. Its very rare that i listen to a recording of myself but when i do i realise i stutter a lot more than i think i do. Might be as you say that i focus on myself, but i remember beeing am...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2014
4 points

This isn't the case for me. I stopped caring if people thought my stutter was weird or annoying a long time ago. But I still realise every time I stutter....

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterJan 3, 2014
4 points

What does stuttering feel like? Do I have one?

What does stuttering feel like? Do I have one? I've always been quiet and withdrawn. As I've gotten older I don't know if it has been my lack of communication or maybe traces of a stutter. Im very slo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2013
6 points

Nevermind how it's called, here's what you do: 1. Never, **ever**, try to force the word out. I know how impossible that feels, but if you get in the habit of forcing the word out, you **will** devel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2013
1 points

I was in speech therapy from 1st grade through 12th grade. I don't really remember much of what I worked on in those sessions, but for the most part, I believe it was just practicing lists of words wi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2013
1 points

listen to what is going on with how you feel. ask yourself the right questions. Not, "why cant I control it", but something useful like "what is happened to me/my airflow when I begin to speak on the ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2013
1 points

I understand both sides. It's like if you don't practice a talk you can become nervous and not be able to talk very well and then stutter. BUT if you agonize over what you say, you become tense, don...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterOct 6, 2013
4 points

DAE stutter more in front of people you are close to than strangers?

DAE stutter more in front of people you are close to than strangers? At home, I stutter a lot while at school with friends it is a mild stutter but still problematic. However I have no problem whats...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2013
9 points

I think nobody ever recovered from stutter. They just learn to handle it. If it is possible, there would be many people talking about it. (there are several, but mostly because of advertisment and som...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationPreparation & Rehearsal+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2013
2 points

Mostly I don't, but sometimes I tend to repeat a few words, especially when I talk fast, and the words just kinda jumble in my throat. That's my problem anyway, my brain processes faster than I can s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2013
2 points

I don't stutter in my head as in I'm having a thought and I stutter ex: "I sh-sh-should r-r-r-really be getting in the sh-shower and getting int-t-to bed soon". But rather I'll be going over something...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2013
2 points

Same way, sometimes. I stall but my mind is still going, thinking of all the things I want/need to say and my mouth is still stalling. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2013
1 points

not really, it's just difficult to get the word out and often times it's like a mental block too where I forget what i'm trying to say or I just get tongue tied. So in short, it feels more like it's ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2013
2 points

Speaking on the phone is tough because there is a time pressure to say something and the person calling can't see if you are struggling to speak. The first thing I do is let the phone ring a couple ti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringFluency TechniquesBlocks & Stoppages