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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2014
3 points

Hi iciaguy. On second thought, I'd like to rephrase that last question. Think I may have over-simplified it! Branden's premise seems to be that the core problem isn't even the type of thinking, but th...

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commentr/StutterAug 24, 2014
1 points

I am going into my junior year, I will tell you, you wll probably do great your first couple of weeks, but things may or may not go sour at some point. whether it be social, academic or other pressure...

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commentr/StutterAug 24, 2014
1 points

http://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/273f6h/starting_college_tomorrow/ not much to say except try to keep presepective and do what you want to do. there'll probably be times when you get down abo...

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commentr/StutterAug 19, 2014
1 points

I feel your pain on #4; sometimes I feel like with my stutter, I dont even know who I am as a person. Just because talking is an issue, it's like I dont even have a life and I'm not relatable in anywa...

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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2014
2 points

So if you want to characterize stuttering correctly here's a list of things to note about stuttering. 1) Right now I only see speech sound repetitions. However, there are other types of disfluencies....

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commentr/StutterAug 15, 2014
1 points

I dont consciously do but my speech is worse and its harder to control. I think its because i have my own acceptance issues and put extra pressures on myself....

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commentr/StutterAug 13, 2014
3 points

Finished this book a few nights ago, and it was uncanny how much I could relate to the author's writing. Growing up, I found myself in lots of similar situations, such as being terrified of introduci...

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commentr/StutterAug 12, 2014
2 points

My name is Jesse. I am 31 years old and have regularly stuttered to some degree since I was in 5th grade. I have had peaks and valleys. Stretches where I speak great and have little issues (such as...

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commentr/StutterAug 10, 2014
3 points

Well, I try to not let my stutter define me as a person. But frankly it's hard. Clearly it's a handicap we all have to deal with. I don't think I'm feeling good about myself lately....

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commentr/StutterAug 8, 2014
1 points

I think your first statement is really interesting. I feel like dating someone who stutters would sound like two misfiring machine guns going back and fourth. And if you had a child, they would almost...

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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2014
1 points

He was offered a job,it's not like it was his dream - and honestly that's probably the best thing you can do for stutter.He would have never overcame his problem (at least not in the way he did) if he...

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2014
1 points

I completely disagree with that "stutterers can do anything they want" mentality. It does not work for everyone, including me. I have been looking for a job in a library, I mean, the whole point is ...

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commentr/StutterJul 20, 2014
6 points

All the most successful people in regards to their stuttering have all held jobs where they were forced to confront it. I'm not saying you have to work the the drive through line at a fast food place,...

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commentr/StutterJul 11, 2014
4 points

I definitely know what you mean, except I do this with other things other than stuttering. I think that's just our fear throwing fantasies over us so we just stay dreaming, feel good, and dont take ac...

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postr/StutterJul 11, 2014
7 points

Do we all feel like we're all waiting for that breakthrough that will make us so confident that we'll be relieved from our stutter?

Do we all feel like we're all waiting for that breakthrough that will make us so confident that we'll be relieved from our stutter? It has come to my realisation that for nearly my whole life I've bee...

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commentr/StutterJul 11, 2014
1 points

you're avoiding facing your fear head on and using a workaround which is avoiding. A lot of PWS do avoid and it only reinforces the fear they have in stuttering. Tricks and workaround dont give you ...

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commentr/StutterJul 11, 2014
1 points

Yes, it can be seen as an avoidance behavior although I personally tend to rather see it as a workaround. You're not avoiding the situation, you're using technology to your advantage to get involved ...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2014
1 points

well speaking is supposed to be natural. for a lot of people, most of the thinking is how they are going to speak as opposed to what they are going to say. That is when a lot of the fear and doubt com...

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commentr/StutterJul 2, 2014
1 points

Oh man I also have lots of trouble with follow through which amounts to plenty of fragmented projects which in turn causes so much stress that keeps me on my couch. I feel you. We can motivate each ot...

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postr/StutterJul 2, 2014
6 points

ahaha beat me with a stick, I just went across town and spent 4,5 hours+12$ to ask a question directly just coz I couldn't call! [some NSFW language]

ahaha beat me with a stick, I just went across town and spent 4,5 hours+12$ to ask a question directly just coz I couldn't call! [some NSFW language] So, I had to get a certain paper from my Embassy i...

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