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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2013
1 points

Same here, I am an amazing writer and I love writing essays and stories for classes. I can really take the time to think about what I want to say and say it just right. I've been getting better with m...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingSituational VariabilitySchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2013
1 points

I was just thinking about this the other day! I've always been recognized by teachers (and, later, profs) for my writing. My friends would ask me to edit their papers in high school. My speaking ha...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2013
1 points

I don't prefer writing to speaking, but I am a fairly decent writer and I think it might have something to do with having a stutter. I'm studying to become a teacher, but writing is my real passion. ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2013
1 points

Yes, even though as a kid I also played sports and spent time with friends a lot. Mostly because I used to stutter less, or give less of a crap, when I was younger. But basically for the same reason a...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMar 1, 2013
12 points

Anyone else a better writer than speaker?

Anyone else a better writer than speaker? I've stuttered my whole life (it's been getting better as I've gotten older and don't think about it as much as I used to) and, since conversing with people w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2013
2 points

Thanks for this post, I like it so much I copied it into a word document and saved it, for whenever I want to reread it. It's tough, and much easier to say than do, but you've inspired me to try to be...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Positive Therapy TechniquesHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2013
2 points

You've summed up my life perfectly. I'm in the process of starting to live for myself, without letting my stuttering hold me back. It's been a hard path, but worrying about it is just so exhausting an...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2013
3 points

This is great advice, thank you. When I block, all I can think of is the word / sound I'm stuck on - I try to hit it faster, like an obstacle to jump over and that just makes it worse. Tomorrow (it's...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2013
11 points

I'll give some personal experience that's helped me a lot, in hopes you find some of the tips useful. I also stutter, am 22 years old, and I primarily block. I experience some prolongations on initia...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftFluency Techniques+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2013
3 points

Anticipatory struggle is a bitch. Worrying about stuttering will only make it worse. I've been teaching myself over time to, as soon as I reach a block or stutter, immediately stop thinking about that...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2013
2 points

Wow, awesome post. I'm definitely going to read those books. Not letting my stutter limit myself is something it took me a long time to realize and implement into my life, and now that I have, I'm so ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2013
14 points

Don't panic. Don't lose hope. You are not alone. First, you should read two books, by two people who have recovered from stuttering following not very different paths. The first is [Redefining Stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2013
1 points

Thank you! That was very helpful. I've been trying to just put myself out there, and not care what other people think. I always feel like I have to please everyone, but have learned that that is not ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2013
6 points

You are awesome. Your speech is only a part of who you are, it does not define you as a person. Every single person has a strong voice and opinion, and they deserve to be heard; even if it makes other...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2013
2 points

I too have tried this method and the truth is that you should not have to constantly be thinking about how to slur your words together when you talk. This speech sounds unnatural. I had to ween myse...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterFeb 12, 2013
1 points

Just Jay: A Short Intro

Just Jay: A Short Intro I just wanted to introduce myself, I watched the King's Speech just now and felt compelled to find a subreddit. And if there wasn't one I was gonna make it. I'm glad I didn't h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Experiential AssociationStress & Fight/FlightMindfulness & Breathing+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2013
3 points

thats really weird how it just came about also dont tell yourself you cant talk or that its going happen the next time you talk, if you say cant or think its going to happen ,then it will happen stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2012
3 points

I can understand this concern, but in a way it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy. If you believe that a stutterer can't command respect, then that filters through into your body language and all of t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2012
1 points

I have had a stutter my whole life. I still feel some symptoms, like some very quick stuttering and some residue anxiety about speech. But they are very minor, and when I feel them I ignore them. I'm ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2012
1 points

Let me just get some clarification, because if you're a non-temporary stutterer, you dont even just stop stuttering. From what I know, its always there with you, but you are just able to control it an...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking