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commentr/StutterAug 19, 2014
2 points

I'm covert. My boyfriend was kind of surprised when I told him even when I am positive I've stuttered/blocked in front of him. Maybe he was being nice. Or maybe I'm too hard on myself....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2014
3 points

Covert for such a long time, but I'm caring less and less. I don't acknowledge it during conversation so ... maybe some people just think I'm confused and stumbling over words? I guess it depends on w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2014
3 points

I'm open. Always. I can be fluent if the situation requires, but I don't see the need to hide who you are. Best defense is a good offense IMO...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2014
1 points

I had never the chance to hide my stuttering. I hated stuttering, but am ok with it now....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2014
2 points

I'm practically open, in the sense that most people can tell after a conversation, but covert in the sense I don't ever breach the topic. I think this makes it worse. And after a while, you think, hel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2014
3 points

I'm 100% covert. My parents sometimes have trouble believing me, I recently told my best friend and nobody else knows. Open stutterers are going to be more common because covert stutterers usually onl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2014
2 points

I don't really think it matters who the thought is coming from. It still gives the impression that Monty has to disregard stuttering in order to like Julio. It suggests that it would be an acceptabl...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterAug 18, 2014
5 points

How many people here are covert stutterers, and how many are more open to others about your stutter?

How many people here are covert stutterers, and how many are more open to others about your stutter? Covert in the sense that most people you interact with do not know you have a stutter. I'd like to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2014
1 points

For a long-ass time I could not say my name without getting stuck. Hasn't been as bad recently. As someone looking to go into politics, hopefully it stays this way......

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2014
1 points

I ran into a guy nearly two years ago who had a profoundly different relationship with his stutter than I do. I'm constantly surfing these threads of words which I know won't trip me up, even though i...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2014
2 points

The first rule of covert stuttering is that we don't talk about stuttering! My whole thing was that I didn't want to be "known" for stuttering. I didn't want people to associate stuttering with me fi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2014
1 points

As has been said, advertising can be a great ice breaker and can make for a more relaxing interview. Also, unless they told you that it was the stutter you don't know why they didn't hire you. I'm loo...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2014
1 points

I agree with this. I haven't ever mentioned this I stutter in an interview, but interviewers seen to catch on. If you do bring it up, make sure you explain how stuttering won't impact your work....

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2014
2 points

If it's a problem to the point that you feel like you won't be able to answer questions or be your best self, just come out and explain to them that you have a stutter, and that it isn't just nerves. ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2014
1 points

From what it sounds like, me and you have very similar situations when it comes to our stutters-I too seem to be able to speak almost fluently sometimes when around friends, professors, and coworkers ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2014
2 points

Thank God it helped you.!! I personally have never hated stuttering, Here is why.(and I tell this not to impress you,but to impress upon you.) 1.it has kept me humble,otherwise I would have been way...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2014
1 points

Hey man. My stutter is a lot worse with my parents and my siblings too. Maybe it's because I don't try to hide my stutter from them as they already know that I do stutter and also I am not concerned a...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2014
1 points

Hmm,nice. I aint personally scared of them knowing or not knowing that i stutter,what makes a sifference to me is my presentation.if that goes good Im happy. And the thing about water,Sounds good. Tha...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 1, 2014
2 points

well thoughts and feelings are two different things. I am a rather severe stutterer so ive always acklowedged and accepted that I stutterered so there was no "fear" of whether i would block or not. I ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2014
3 points

Congratulations on not fearing blocks and for putting yourself into communication interactions that might make you uncomfortable. Neither of those are small things. You should be proud. Can I ask som...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingBlocks & Stoppages