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postr/StutterMar 5, 2015
1 points

I can't say my own name sometimes

I can't say my own name sometimes My last name starts with a "B" which can be difficult for me (along with other hard contact letters/sounds) when I'm nervous...which usually only happens around stran...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2015
1 points

I stutter and work as a project manager. Which basically means I am on conferences calls and in meetings all day. I can usually get sentences out, but sometimes I stutter. I've learned to stop myse...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2015
1 points

Yep, just have an open and honest conversation with her, explaining your experience with stuttering and how that situation made you feel. It isn't a matter of you laying blame on her for what transpir...

Social & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Disclosure & Telling OthersAudience Scale & Group SizeRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2015
1 points

Hey man, no worries. I stutter and I think I'm doing well for myself. I'm a decent scientist (working on my PhD), I TA several courses, give poster and conference presentations and regularly have to s...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2015
1 points

Hey, I'm in medical school in the U.S. I'm thinking about going into PM&R. My stuttering is mild/intermittent, but I've definitely stuttered while talking to patients, during rounds, and making co...

School & WorkCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerStress & Fight/FlightDisclosure & Telling Others+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2015
2 points

I get it, You're revealing an intimate detail about yourself. That is typically easier in small group settings. This is compounded by the fact that you'll be in a room with your colleagues. There is...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2015
1 points

That's a good point. I'm not saying it's right or logical, but it would feel better and be easier for me at this stage of me being more open about my speech. Also, I do genuinely feel like 1:1 or sm...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling OthersAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2015
2 points

I have interviewed people. I usually don't tell them about my stutter. They will get to know it eventually. lol And my attitude doesn't change on number of people in the room. And I think thats the r...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2015
3 points

From my experience, no employer has written me off or anyone else I know because they stutter. If you're communication skills are poor then sure, but I know many fluent people with crappy communicatio...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2015
1 points

Yes, I'm sure you are absolutely right about the self-disclosure. Actually this is exactly what I've realized during the last weeks, I'm going through a big progress and change in my life right now. U...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2015
2 points

I'm not a physician, but i'm about to get my PhD. I do a lot of lecturing and talking to people at my university. You've already received some good advice. I only want to add one thing: There are no ...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2015
9 points

I'm a stuttering registered nurse. When I read you love interacting with people, but feel insecure- I felt like it was something I've thought about a thousand times. I've doubted my skill. I also st...

School & WorkCoping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Employment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesPhysical Tension+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2015
1 points

I am currently going through basic training in my country's military and I stuttered when saying my name to my Sergeant. He asked if I had forgotten my name and I responded "Actually I stutter" with a...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2015
1 points

You need to work on opening up about and advertising your stuttering. By being open about it and telling others how you want them to handle your stuttering, you let them know you are okay with your st...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2015
1 points

Just how are you dating exactly? Via online stuff? Maybe you should mention it already there, because you know (or at least you highly suspect) it's going to make a difference. That's honesty, innit. ...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2015
3 points

thanks for the reply but I don't think i'm guessin a whole lot. One girl actually asked me why I repeated "whatever word it was" and we kinda laughed about it. Soon after that she told me she was goin...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2015
1 points

I understand completely. Idk how I got over it. Honestly, I don't think I did. It is awkward to let ppl kno but like u said, there is a sense of relief present afterwards and I don't feel as much pres...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2015
1 points

yeah I guess I haven't been open about it in the beginning in the past .. but I also don't feel the need to bring it up. Maybe it's just me but I feel more awkward if I bring it up and I know I'll hav...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2015
1 points

I'm 26 and luckily I found a woman who doesn't mind me stuttering. I've had girlfriends in the past but this is the longest relationship I've had thus far, at a lil more than a year. I guess u can cal...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2015
2 points

I used to have to say my name on the phone at work and people would often say "are you SURE that's your name, ha ha!" (because I said it slow in a way that made it sound like I was just making it up o...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others