thanks for the reply but I don't think i'm guessin a whole lot. One girl actually asked me why I repeated "whatever word it was" and we kinda laughed about it. Soon after that she told me she was going to date someone else and still confided with me with all her problems, mainly that the guy was sleeping with several other women and she still went out with him. Another one told me to watch the Kings Speech, which was a direct hint to my disability. My confidence is there and can be sky high at times but sometimes my speech derails it. I'm not sure if you stutter as well but that is one of the biggest things to overcome.