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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2015
1 points

While men are sometimes still expected to make the first move, these days women are perfectly capable of doing so as well. As far as confidence, I'm pretty sure it's tied in with personality -- what...

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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2015
4 points

It's less of a problem because we still live in a culture where males are expected to make the first move. Confidence can be attractive to males, but is in general less important than physical attr...

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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2015
-2 points

*"This is less of an issue for female stutterers."* You're kidding me, right? You think the insecurity, anxiety and lack of confidence related to stuttering is somehow less of a problem for female s...

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2015
1 points

I agree it makes it alot harder for us who stutter. I have a couple of serious relationships behind me, the last one ended because I dont want children. My last ex was very cool about my stuttering. S...

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2015
4 points

You can't really compare the dating reality of a female stutterer to a male stutterer. Both genders are attracted to different things. Women are in general attracted to confidence. It can be hard to b...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2015
2 points

I'm 21 and I dated a girl for a month who thought my [stutter was cute](http://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/2qciua/would_if_offend_you_if_i_told_you_i_like_your/). Broke up on good terms for pers...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2015
7 points

The last time I had a conversation with a girl was in early 2009. That should give you an idea about my non-existent dating life....

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2015
4 points

I'm a 24 year old woman who stutters (severe-moderate) and I'm going to have to agree with what another poster stated -- I don't think stuttering is the (major) problem here. While I do think speec...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2015
5 points

I am 20 years old and I am still with my first girlfriend, almost 4 years together. I guess I am lucky in that matter, she never seemed to mind at all, even extremely lucky to find someone like that f...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2015
1 points

yeah I guess I haven't been open about it in the beginning in the past .. but I also don't feel the need to bring it up. Maybe it's just me but I feel more awkward if I bring it up and I know I'll hav...

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2015
1 points

I'm 26 and luckily I found a woman who doesn't mind me stuttering. I've had girlfriends in the past but this is the longest relationship I've had thus far, at a lil more than a year. I guess u can cal...

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postr/StutterJan 30, 2015
11 points

Stuttering and Dating

Stuttering and Dating Stuttering and Dating are one of the hardest things I have dealt with. I am now 31 years old and have yet to find a longterm girlfriend. I have gone out and dated pretty girls in...

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postr/StutterJan 2, 2015
19 points

Met a girl that stutter

Met a girl that stutter The other day i went to a dinner at the house of a friend of my mother. There i met their daughter, she is 18 (im 17) and when i heard her talking i noticed she stuttered, not ...

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commentr/StutterDec 25, 2014
3 points

I've had several women think it's cute, I never understood it until I helped a girl at work who had a lisp and it was very attractive. I could listen to her talk all day. ...

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commentr/StutterDec 25, 2014
7 points

My girlfriend thinks mine is cute. Whenever I block really bad, she'll kiss me. I think the parts of her that she hates are cute, too. Beautiful, even. It's weird, but it's true. Consider yourself l...

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commentr/StutterDec 25, 2014
3 points

Happened to me a few times aswell! Even got laid basically because the girl used to have a stutter. Trying real hard to get serious with a girl that also thought it was cute. Hope it goes well man!...

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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2014
1 points

Honestly have you though about online dating? It's a lot easier to talk to someone on there and you can be up front to them about your stutter right away....

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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2014
2 points

I dont know how far this is from you but:http://www.westutter.org/find-an-nsa-meeting-near-you/Indiana/ Next year's NSA conference will be in Chicago. Make the drive it. I'm not a hype man but i woul...

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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2014
1 points

Ah I understand. I've never gone up and spoke to a girl I didn't know. I've started random conversations with people but never approached anybody with the sole purpose of getting their number so I'd p...

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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2014
3 points

From experience, only very few people are put off by it. My stutter is quite bad, not terrible but definitely very noticeable. I've only ever had one first date where it didn't lead to at least anothe...

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