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commentr/StutterMar 29, 2026
1 points

Be yourself and muster confidence. Good women won't care about how you speak, they will care about your values. I'm a stuttering, bookish woman who has a harder time making friends but once they get t...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2026
4 points

Joseph Nguyen's book is really about one thing: we suffer not because of what happens **to** us, but because of what we *tell ourselves* about what happens. For people who stutter, this hits home hard...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2026
2 points

focus on yourself and being authentic, don’t be afraid to embarrass yourself, if you do embarrass yourself reframe it from ”I should or shouldn’t have done this.” to ”I learned/experienced this.” don’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2026
2 points

Yes, absolutely! It changes the way you think about the negative thoughts that creep into your mind, and how to block them out. I plan to read this book a couple more times. It’s that good! 👍🏼 ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringFluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2026
2 points

It’s hard. I can compare it with going to the gym. At first you don’t enjoy going. It’s difficult training and it’s even more difficult being consistent by going like 3 days a week for months. You ho...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftFluency TechniquesHope & Motivation+3 more
commentr/u_JackStuttersMar 29, 2026
1 points

Yes!! Getting so sick of these performative posts by “doms” that are so clearly AI-generated and people in the comments eating it up like it’s so profound to them. I completely agree. I honestly was ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/u_JackStuttersMar 29, 2026
2 points

Jesus who are you? You are speaking directly to my soul and I have expressed the same sentiments a lot over the last year. That’s how I feel people categorized themselves on bdsm. Like if they say the...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/u_JackStuttersMar 28, 2026
2 points

The title of my senior thesis in college was actually Practice What We Preach 😂 Now, granted, it was about the history and future of natural law jurisprudence in America, but that idea “practice wha...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/u_JackStuttersMar 28, 2026
2 points

Once upon a time I had an ad up on bdsmpersonals and I said that same thing: Mean what you say and say what you mean. I got another quote for you now though 😂😂 "Words are powerful. Either you don't...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/u_JackStuttersMar 28, 2026
2 points

Thank you for that; I really appreciate it. And I love a good snoop ;) But really though, thank you. It’s great to know that there are still people out there who value sincerity and authenticity, who...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMar 28, 2026
38 points

Fantastic book to re-frame the way you think!

Fantastic book to re-frame the way you think! Hi all, I just wanted to share this book I’ve been reading lately, and it has completely re-framed the way I think about my stutter. I highly recommend ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2026
1 points

I went through PFSP training sessions four times, once at Hollins, twice with Ross Barrett, and another center in MA. Hollins was a huge success, and I was one of the more dysfluent speakers there. Bu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationFluency Techniques+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2026
3 points

Congratulations for your new found confidence. Keep going, you are more than a stutter. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2026
1 points

my stuttering started in 4th grade and until now (32) I'm still wondering how it happened and I just learned to accept it....

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Acceptance & PrideOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2026
3 points

You have a lot to live for. Your life is precious and there are many with a worse life than yours. Can you go and volunteer for people who really need help? This will help give meaning and depth to yo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2026
0 points

All the confidence in here. Not merely those trying to give advise, but the confidence of those that shut others down. Use that determination and self assuredness in positioning to a better life. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2026
2 points

I do not have a stutter as bad as yours, but I have struggled with one my entire life. All I can say is that the way you were feeling is never the answer. Stutterers have to be brave to simply perform...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2026
3 points

Cmon, you're only 19 years old. One of the things to do is to tell people that you have a stutter and you'll feel more relieved. Tell your uni professors that you have a stutter and they'll be more le...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2026
3 points

19 years is too short to see this beautiful world! I can assure you your stutter will get better. How can I assure you that? Because i went through your situation when i was 16. Now i am in my 40s an...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2026
7 points

Congrats and well done! See, do not believe everything you think about your stutter. It does not define you. ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride