Jesus who are you? You are speaking directly to my soul and I have expressed the same sentiments a lot over the last year. That’s how I feel people categorized themselves on bdsm. Like if they say they are a brat and you can just tell it’s roleplay for them. They will ask ways to brat etc. I am a brat.. but I’m a brat because it’s literally who I am. I don’t have to try. I don’t roleplay it. I’m a scrappy, extremely feisty, blunt and it’s just who I am. The other day I read a comment saying how a lot of doms don’t like brats cause they are difficult and self absorbed/selfish. My brat-personality has kept me alive (as well as keep my brother and mother alive growing up- that isn’t selfish.. that is selfless) so I’ll take my real brat-personality over the fake dom personas 🤦🏻‍♀️ jokes on them honestly.