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commentr/StutterDec 22, 2025
12 points

Eight years is a long time to carry this around. How long do you want to carry this around? How long are you going to carry this around? May I suggest giving this its due attention one last time. S...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2025
15 points

I remember when I was like 6 or 7 when training karate, my best friend and his older sister started telling me how they mocked me that day when talking to each other on the way back from school and ho...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerTrauma & Psychological+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2025
38 points

Go to r/socialanxiety That sub is the most hopeless I've seen ever. For having a disorder that literally renders speaking physically impossible at any random moment, we hold up pretty well....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2025
3 points

Big No! Stuttering in mid-high intensity levels is a lifetime of constant efforts just to be able to speak (what people without it do without even thinking about it). Even if we provide the best of...

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Helplessness & AgencyShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2025
1 points

Hello person of color who stutter as well 1) I would say having all the knowledge and can express or are too afraid to speak your mind 2) I need more support before a hard conversation. I tense up a ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & NamesHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2025
2 points

Hey man, first of all you are not alone there's so many people like you out there are experiencing the same and second of all I'm pretty sure your colleagues and boss know that you have stuttering but...

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Validation & EmpathyHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2025
0 points

I felt your pain when reading your post.  I hit a state where I didn’t want to speak anymore and started sentences with “Erm erm erm erm erm” like a feeble attempt to not stutter. I was 17/18 years o...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2025
2 points

So you basically go mute when you feel like it'd be hard to speak, I sometimes wish that I could do that, I can see how it'd be easier in a foreign country. But this isn't a long term solution, when y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2025
1 points

I mean, this is more of a you thing. The stutter isn’t the issue. The inability to manage your anxiety and your lack of resilience are what you should be really concerned about....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2025
1 points

I relate to your story heavily, and I also relate on the fear of further life. Not having the ability to speak thoughts because of a stutter is so mentally debilitating, I hope all is well with you...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2025
1 points

Yeah speaking over you every time you talk isn’t cool regardless if it’s family or not. Maybe having a proper adult conversation with them one day and telling them how you feel is probably the only wa...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHelplessness & AgencyFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2025
2 points

I somewhat agree with you, although my parents have always spoken over me everytime so I’ve never had a chance to actually talk for myself with anyone when they’re around, I know they’re trying to pro...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2025
1 points

Because we are wired to give a fuck. You can say u don't give a fuck but u do. Humans are social creatures. Its in our genes to care. You can delusion yourself into thinking you don't and it works for...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2025
3 points

No one is here saying to be pessimistic. We need to be realistic instead of being toxic positive. This super positive attitude will crush you later in life when u realize u didn't achieve what u wan...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2025
2 points

I mean, if you had an actual method, go ahead and share it. It's like telling people with bi-polar "you can just mental your way out of it". And I'm someone who is active looking for a solution to stu...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2025
1 points

They melted multiple times before. You assume because im 17 that nothing bad happened to me. Oncd again, you are fighting SO HARD to convince me your issues are harder and that you cant be happy. Li...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2025
1 points

You think your the only one? Get over yourself. We all dealt with it and will continue to. I promise you if you focus on defending why your life will he a never ending depression fest, your gonna en...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2025
6 points

\>Theres people who cant see, cant walk, cant hear, cant function. Some of those people also stutter. I fucking hate these toxic positivity posts....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencyMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2025
1 points

I got ELS 2 days from graduating from boot camp for my stutter. Now im with a speech therapist. I am still deciding if I would go back to a different branch and try it again....

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Helplessness & AgencySeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2025
3 points

Props to you for facing your "challenges" head on and not letting it hold you back, and thanks for your service. In highschool I strongly considered joining the navy, but didn't because of my stutter....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career