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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2022
1 points

I was 17 years old and was driving 3 of my friends around on a Saturday night near the mall. I forgot to turn on my headlights as I was exiting a very well lit parking lot and turned onto a very well ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2022
5 points

I think it’s just a symptom of someone who is speech anxious, which most stutters are. Perhaps he is worried that if he doesn’t speak right away he will stutter more after time builds up. That being...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2022
5 points

Yes. I've spoken to at least 2 police officers before and they had to ask why I seemed nervous when I first spoke. I'm sure they were referring to my stuttering. In those moments I'm not thinking abou...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Power Dynamics & IntimidationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2022
1 points

Don't put them in a team meeting. Develop an individual work relationship between yourselves and then work out. A group is much less intimidating when you know everyone in it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentPower Dynamics & IntimidationAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2021
5 points

Tbh, I agree that he did sound like an asshole. After a couple of blocks and repetitions, it's very obvious that someone has a stutter. And most reasonable adults go from being judgmental/inquisitive...

Social & Relationships
Listener ReactionsPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2021
1 points

I am pursuing a career in law enforcement. I have passed both the oral interview and polygraph test. I'm acutally almost finished with the whole process. All I can say is just be confident, practice y...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2021
1 points

I'm not a cop, but I have done a polygraph for work. It can definitely be uncomfortable because you have to control your body in a very specific way, but just do your best to comply with what they ask...

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Power Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2021
2 points

I think in general that having a police job is very courageous not only because you are putting your life on the line for the safety of a community which I wholeheartedly appreciate but I personally j...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Power Dynamics & IntimidationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2021
1 points

This ^ you are such a kind professor and they will appreciate your caring approach. For me personally, it helps me to stutter less if the person i am talking to looks me in the eye and doesn’t look aw...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling OthersPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterNov 28, 2021
2 points

Yes mate can definitely relate to you.. i never used to stutter with almost all the people except the one's with some authoritative control over me.. but things have not been the same recently.. now t...

Social & Relationships
Power Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2021
2 points

Your professor will not deduct points because of your stutter. It sounds like the professor is understanding of it anyway so that is good....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
postr/StutterNov 5, 2021
29 points

Thinking about Stuttering

Thinking about Stuttering Hey, so I was talking to myself in the mirror, and I came to a realization; if I can control my speech around myself PERFECTLY with out a single stutter, why can't I do that ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. MaskingPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2021
21 points

As men, we're simple creatures. A little physical contact goes a long way. Put your hand on his. Ask him to take a walk. Some of us are incredibly dense as well. You might have to spell it out for h...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomancePower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2021
3 points

For my master degree we have a lot of project work and they made me project leader aka responsible for almost everything, making them look good, chairing meetings and so on. Although I am the youngest...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2021
2 points

Yes. I'm seasoned enough in the field enough to interview other engineers. I would say I've given at least 20 or so interviews (Probably more). It's actually not that bad cause I just ask questions an...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesPower Dynamics & IntimidationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 27, 2021
3 points

It’s a matter of confidence. How do you do when you speak to a dog or cat? How about a little kid or baby? It had to do with people of power or people who may judge you....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2021
2 points

Hmmm no it’s not worse around my parents or friends, it’s usually worse when I am nervous tho (so when I’m talking to someone in a position of authority, but for some reason I don’t block if I don’t r...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & StoppagesPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2021
5 points

You’re defending your thesis and the people you’re defending it to don’t already know? Aren’t they your faculty? Regardless, go for it. Can only help you....

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
School & Academic LifePower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2021
8 points

Here’s how I see it. And I consider myself a rather confident stutterer. It’s a neurological condition I can only control to a point. I try and use fluency techniques, but I’m going to stutter, and th...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Neurological & BrainIdentity & Self-PerceptionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2021
1 points

I'm in this situation as well. In an office of like 7 people and I'm probably on the phones most of the time next to HR so when I talk literally everyone can hear what I'm saying. My boss is also righ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & IntimidationAudience Scale & Group Size