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i have lost any hope, i dont anything might fix this. just ignore it like its nothing, speak whatever, however and stop the fear of being judged. just ignore everybody . thats what i do nowadays ...

Yes I'm the same as you bro, I've realised that at work I need to ensure that I really need know my stuff in order to present with finesse. We can still do anything, it just takes a bit more work :)...

If I came off rude I apologize. Most people who love this hobby fall somewhere on the spectrum and mine is a little direct, I've also been running games for over 23 years at this point and I've just d...

Confidence is the key. It won't cure your stutter but confidence will improve your fluency and greatly improve your quality of life. There are lots of ways we learn to improve our self confidence and...

These are all great ideas but they’re also a good reason why I stress not to over-plan your first character before a session 0. There’s nothing *wrong* with any of this but it does ask for a magic i...

Something that actually helped my speaking anxiety (not what I expected)

Something that actually helped my speaking anxiety (not what I expected) I’ve struggled with speaking anxiety/stuttering for a long time, especially in situations where I feel put on the spot. Recent...

Every post you make resonates with me. I have experienced the same awareness (through moments of my life in which I could speek more freely as well as in meditation) that you have in order to write th...

So I had a pretty wild weekend.

So I had a pretty wild weekend. Hey r/stutter, it’s been a second. My name is Chris and I’m a stutter. I have been for pretty much as long as I can remember and I’ve had an experience that a lot of ...

Stuttering Redemption!

Stuttering Redemption! In high school, I was selected to give a debate in front of all the students. I unfornately ran off the stage because everyone was laughing at me for the way I speak. However, t...

focus on yourself and being authentic, don’t be afraid to embarrass yourself, if you do embarrass yourself reframe it from ”I should or shouldn’t have done this.” to ”I learned/experienced this.” don’...

It’s hard. I can compare it with going to the gym. At first you don’t enjoy going. It’s difficult training and it’s even more difficult being consistent by going like 3 days a week for months. You ho...

This is a poor mindset. You’re running from it. Work hard on the problem to make it manageable and do whatever job makes you happy, not a job that accommodates your low self esteem towards the way you...

Fantastic book to re-frame the way you think!

Fantastic book to re-frame the way you think! Hi all, I just wanted to share this book I’ve been reading lately, and it has completely re-framed the way I think about my stutter. I highly recommend ...

I was in similar situation multiple times till high school. However things improved in college because of two things - practice and a firm resolve to improve my speech. Don't care about others, just f...

I think either way they’re both coping mechanisms. Toxic positivity is usually a response to that person not being able to allow themselves to feel their emotions, whereas toxic negativity is like a s...

Hey..im 24 and stuttered all my life but trust me mindset matters, i used to think that i cant do this or i should run away from communication classes . I still feel anxious in a crowd but things like...

For me its not pauses, its changing my pace.  What ever way feels like I will get stuck, I try to do the opposite, change my pace and sometimes it feels like a substitute even though its the same thin...

I think we agree more than we disagree. It's just that there are too many variables mentioned in this particular case and too much of a tendency for people to cry 'poor me' when it may not be justifie...

I have the book. It has helped me a lot. Not saying everything in there I agree with or I think is perfect. However, I think the main idea that the book provides and that has led to success in my life...

I reduced my stammering by 85%

I reduced my stammering by 85% I don't remember I have stammer when I was a kid. I think I got stammering in 5th standard but 2 years ago my stammering was on top like I can't say my name, talk to oth...