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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2026
8 points

I feel you. It becomes like a possession. Trust me, you are not alone!! The isolation takes its toll on our mind. After years of akward situations and embarrassing ourselves we almost become the stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterJan 31, 2026
19 points

Talking to myself

Talking to myself I just need to vent (22M) I have stuttered my entire life. The only place I could ever find a sense of peace was inside my own mind; at least in my thoughts, I didn't have to feel a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentExperiential AssociationTrauma & Psychological+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2026
2 points

I have had many prescriptions over the years. Xanax, Clonazepam and Valium. Xanax makes me stutter more, but I don't care about it. Clonazepam makes me mean, I get personality changes. Valium is pe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2026
1 points

Godzilla help us... I just give up when I can and tbh you should try that, like becoming mute suddenly and using gestures instead, it's weird too but a weird I prefer. I know it's hard, you're stuc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2026
2 points

Man, I can relate so much! I get so distracted by fighting the demon that I just throw words out so I can quickly escape the situation. I battle the exact same things you do! Today I was working out...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2026
2 points

Yes, I have become somewhat lazy in trying to hide the stutter. Every single social interaction I have is awkward so I have sort of given up trying to control it. I block HARD, shooting out my words ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2026
2 points

Lowkey jealous bc my speech does not really allow me to be a covert stutterer. Also thankful that my speech forces me not to be one...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2026
4 points

Older adult here - been stuttering really well for 50+ years. I was covert for more than half those years, because I was filled with such shame and fear of rejection. Being covert - in hiding - handc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2026
6 points

I’m a covert stutterer (27f) and I regret it. It’s such a habit now and I’ve been doing it for so long I don’t know how to stop. This year I’ve actually made it a goal to allow myself to stutter aroun...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2026
2 points

I’m curious if anybody has made it work. To me is just weird and I don’t use it as a crutch....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2026
15 points

I was a covert stutterer. Now I can't hide it at all. My speech seem to get worse with age....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2026
20 points

I'd say I'm almost able to be covert on a good day. My life is filled with constant planning of word substitution, forward social thinking, anxiety management and exposure theraping myself....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterJan 30, 2026
24 points

Are there any covert stutters in here

Are there any covert stutters in here I think I may be one, and reading upon the term I really do go through so much stress on a daily basis just to appear like a normally fluent individual, and I thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2026
1 points

That is a smart move. Showing the screen at a festival is a great way to handle the pressure of the crowd. Using OneNote for work reports is also a solid idea. Having a script ready definitely lowers ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 29, 2026
2 points

Oh, when I order drinks at a festival, and there are 20000 people behind me, I write it out beforehand on my phone and just show them otherwise if I block it becomes an awkward excercise for both of u...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
postr/StutterJan 28, 2026
22 points

Dating with a stutter

Dating with a stutter So I’m 18f, and I’ve never had a partner. I’ve been told that I’m attractive, and I get approached in public, but I can never actually speak when put in that situation, so I end ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2026
2 points

I do not acknowledge it or bring it up myself and I don't reply much when someone else does. I either shut it down or let them talk while nodding along and making agreement sounds....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2026
1 points

There are medicines like dopamine blockers that can help a lot. Check it out on Chatgpt. Others are in the pipeline. This is the best current solution and significant research is being done.Please don...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Helpful Med OutcomesHiding & ConcealmentNeurological & Brain
postr/StutterJan 26, 2026
5 points

Is stuttering considered a disability for landing a job?

Is stuttering considered a disability for landing a job? I'm a computer science student, and I've noticed that many job postings are labeled as "disability-friendly" or even specifically look for cand...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2026
1 points

I feel like I’ve always talked about it with friends and family since it’s not something I can easily hide, but recently I’ve started doing it with strangers. I have a really great SLP that goes to a ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more