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commentr/StutterJan 25, 2026
2 points

My wife and I attended a wedding recently and we were seated with 6 absolute strangers. I was pretty anxious before getting seated, but then I thought to myself, “fuck it I’m going to walk up to that...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2026
3 points

It is a wedding! Everyone is there to have a good time and be happy for the couple. The only person who is going to care about your stutter will be you. You will need to navigate the meal, I would adv...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterJan 24, 2026
1 points

People will pretend like don't know what you're talking about. We all know that the reason we care about stuttering at all is because people made us feel bad about it. They made us feel like it was s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2026
2 points

I've heard it before, not always, but some do say it, or imply it when I take issue with how they are treating me. At 54, I don't put up with much when it comes to my stuttering....

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2026
3 points

I really think we stutteres need to give less of a fuck. No need to fit in. Do what you do and take minutes or longer to say what you want to say. Be open about the fact that you stutter and that’s it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2026
1 points

Disclose you’re a stutterer but it does not affect your abilities on the job. Definitely try to get good sleep the night before! Slow down your rate of speech when answering. Don’t rush into it. If ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2026
1 points

Yes. Just saying hi is enough. You don’t need jokes, trying to impress, or explanations. If someone wants to interact, they’ll show it. If not, your responsibility ends at “hi.” This is your new bou...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2026
2 points

Nah if someone laughs at my stutter we have a problem. I only let one person laugh WITH me when I stutter and she’s my best friend. I had another friend laugh when I stutter and everyone else jumped i...

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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2026
9 points

Sorry for my vent, but this really annoys me. For context. I work in retail. I'm on the tills a lot because I love it. I get some customers mocking how I get stuck on words, they LAUGH BC clearly, the...

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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2026
1 points

I straight up told the teacher I was opting out of class reading. She could call on me, but I wasn't doing it. I did my oral presentations after class to just the teachers. Advocate for yourselves!...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2026
5 points

let him finish, and then you can ask specific clarifying questions if you don't understand something he said. that's just part of two way communication. same as everybody. the only time you may have ...

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postr/StutterJan 21, 2026
7 points

Some people are allowed to say such a nonsense and everybody tolerates it

Some people are allowed to say such a nonsense and everybody tolerates it So , sometimes people are dumb and are allowed to say unbelievable things. It might sound narcissistic but Why I need to stay...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2026
14 points

There's a very low chance he's not already aware of it. Personally, I feel uncomfortable when someone points out or gives me advice about my stutter. I struggle with confidence and it makes me feel li...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2026
19 points

Better just leave him alone. He probably knows and is just trying to live his life the best way he can...

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Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2026
1 points

Please let your parents know about the situation and have them call the school to grill them about this situation. Your voice matters so the teacher should be accommodating for you or anyone else who ...

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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2026
4 points

let's go through what's the worst that could happen. if they know you have stutter, they should wait more, not less, for your speaking on the fly. unfortunately, some people do the opposite and they ...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAccess & Rights
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2026
3 points

honestly just keep going like that, with patience and understanding, or straight up ask , you might be reading into this too much so at best he doesn't care and if he does then you can have that conve...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2026
4 points

I think the best thing you could do is to have a conversation about this with him. Until you do, it’s sort of like the elephant in the room. He may or may not want to talk about it, but it sounds like...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterJan 10, 2026
11 points

society has shortchanged us

society has shortchanged us I really starting to feel this way, especially after browsing this subreddit, and reading all the words of pain and anguish. I always just dealt with stutter in my own wa...

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postr/StutterJan 6, 2026
21 points

One of the most annoying interactions

One of the most annoying interactions Last night I went to a new meditation circle I’ve never been to before. I was early, so the instructor asked if I wanted to read aloud a few quotes to the group w...

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