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postr/StutterJul 8, 2017
2 points

I'm a short, chubby, asian dude with a stutter, send help pls

I'm a short, chubby, asian dude with a stutter, send help pls I haven't been doing well socially, been in college for about 3 years now, and I haven't made any "friends". I've met people who pretend t...

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Friendships & BelongingLoneliness & IsolationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2017
1 points

I was just thinking about this yesterday..with my stutter and terrible social anxiety I'm barely surviving in the work force people are fucking mean and horrible to you all the time, you hear people m...

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Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2017
1 points

Thank you your the only person who I know has a stutter.Its hard though the anxiety it creates which makes me not want to say anything not even to myself ...

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postr/StutterJun 23, 2017
6 points

How do you enjoy conversation?

How do you enjoy conversation? I have a mild to moderate stutter, and several other speech disorders on top of it. Fortunately, I've found friends who don't really mind. I even found a few girls who a...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & IsolationAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2017
2 points

I'm probably the wrong person to ask how to get over it. My defence mechanism is to isolate myself from the world so currently I don't have any one who I could call a friend. I'm still trying to figur...

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Loneliness & IsolationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2017
2 points

Hi. I have not dealt with a similar situation myself, neither with alcohol nor stuttering. But I'm going to answer you anyway. (I do not have a stutter, as I said, but I know an odd amount for a la...

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commentr/StutterMay 28, 2017
1 points

Hi. People find that isolation can make stuttering worse, even when that isolation starts of as a way of avoiding dreaded situations. Not saying that's what you did, but maybe that is happening? Is ...

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Loneliness & IsolationFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2017
1 points

Im currently 13 turning 14. I have not stuttered at all. My health is fine other then me being obese. I haven't exactly faced any sort of Trauma, maybe Its because I miss my old friends a lot and i've...

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postr/StutterMay 19, 2017
7 points

I hate it when I call someone up on the phone and I can only say a few words.

I hate it when I call someone up on the phone and I can only say a few words. I sound like an idiot or like I don't know English. I can't stand it. Just had to call back someone I haven't met before a...

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commentr/StutterMay 18, 2017
2 points

Plenty of time especially during high school, got into fights, got turned into an angry rage monster, still am a rage monster. Got older and knew I couldn't really keep on beating people who made fun...

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commentr/StutterApr 4, 2017
11 points

Too anti-social for me, and that comes from someone with social anxiety. Sticking to places like these will only make you more isolated and introvert. Before you know it, you will have panic attacks f...

Social & Relationships
Loneliness & IsolationQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2017
4 points

Hey, I saw that response to you in the other sub that is all about how you should "talk to everyone," and find same interests so "conversation is easier." Of course, he didn't know that you stutter.....

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postr/StutterMar 10, 2017
15 points

How do I fix stuttering and loneliness?

How do I fix stuttering and loneliness? Hello, I am new to r/stutter, I have a severe stutter I've had since I was able to speak. I am almost 19, have already gotten out of high school. I am talking w...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2017
2 points

Yeah, I think about that sometimes. I do not stutter. But people who do often feel like they are the only ones. But that can't be true, can it, with 1% of adults who stutter. That's a LOT of peopl...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2017
2 points

I want so badly to just not care, but it's really hard most of the time... I kind of wish everyone who stuttered could do it openly so that it wouldn't seem so alienating when we do slip up and feel l...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2017
14 points

I'm sure this isn't for everybody, but I'll share what I've been doing in life. I've completely given up trying to be social. I still see friends every now and again but it isn't a large part of my l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterFeb 19, 2017
14 points

Stammer getting unbearable

Stammer getting unbearable Hello, In the last 5 years or so my stammer has made my life so difficult. When I was younger I would have described it as a serious problem, but as I have gotten older it h...

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Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2017
2 points

You've touched on something that I've thought about, are introverts introverted because they're just pickier about who they pal around with? Like I can spend lots of time, days even, with certain peop...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2017
2 points

I think I'm an introvert by necessity. I love talking to people, especially about something I'm interested in (maybe everyone is like this, iunno) but I don't really like small talk. ...

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Loneliness & IsolationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2017
3 points

No, I prefer to be at home spending time by myself. Though, I can be outgoing for small periods of time, but I end of feeling drained pretty quickly. ...

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Loneliness & IsolationAnxiety & Social Judgment