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postr/StutterApr 16, 2024
8 points

I Tired Of How My Life Is & Need Some Advice

I Tired Of How My Life Is & Need Some Advice I physically can’t continue life like this anymore. Although I’m doing quite decent at University, I keep getting into depressive slumps that tank my perfo...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging+2 more
postr/StutterApr 16, 2024
1 points

This is it, My Final Attempt At Life. I Call It My Contract Of Death

This is it, My Final Attempt At Life. I Call It My Contract Of Death Being who gave life to existence, before the womb and before I had thought. Please be the judge and the reminder to seek a swift en...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2024
1 points

Stuttering destroys social life, social skill, in school you been laughted, avoid socialising, being active in lesson so your grades are lower, you sit silent and got same grade as interrupting kid. S...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeFriendships & BelongingLoneliness & Isolation+1 more
postr/StutterApr 15, 2024
13 points

Whats something you had to accept

Whats something you had to accept (related to stuttering obv) Ill start. Had to accept that i will not be as easily lovable as some people. Like this friend, hes so lovable I literally fell in love ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideFriendships & BelongingHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2024
3 points

I’ve never been, but I’ve heard a lot of good things about the National Stuttering Association (NSA) local chapter groups. You go, meet others who stutter, talk about stuttering or whatever you want t...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterApr 14, 2024
6 points

What's some places online/irl to meet other stutterers?

What's some places online/irl to meet other stutterers? Lately I've been thinking about how nice it would be to meet other stutterers in my area and be around people who get what it's like to be us. ...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Friendships & BelongingFamily Support & ConflictValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterApr 13, 2024
9 points

Do you care if other people who stutter acknowledge your stutter?

Do you care if other people who stutter acknowledge your stutter? I have had a moderate stutter for 30+ years and it has really made me an introverted person. I get really excited when I meet other pe...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Friendships & BelongingIdentity & Self-PerceptionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2024
1 points

I met him on the stutter discord lol. Have been together almost two years ❤️...

Social & Relationships
Friendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

I think I'm a lot more extroverted than I ever expected to be. I was homeschooled growing up and very socially isolated (I wonder if that made my stutter worse from lack of practice talking to people....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

I did, for about a year I've stopped now, I've got an amazing group of friends now and kinda lost interest in expanding further 😅 especially when drunk, I get even more introverted and just ignore a...

Social & Relationships
Friendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

I totally agree, I generally do go for it anyways, sometimes it works. But there's an undeniable reality that timing/tone are a huge factor in communication, especially humour, and it rarely comes acr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2024
3 points

I'm naturally extroverted and love social interaction. My stutter may get in the way, but when it doesn't, I have a great time. I went to a concert alone last month, and for the first time ever, I ha...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. MaskingFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterApr 10, 2024
23 points

How did you meet your partner?

How did you meet your partner? I’m an 18 year old male in college right now and I’ve always had trouble approaching people and making conversation at social events. Im just wondering how you guys as p...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceFriendships & BelongingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
3 points

I'm 20 and feel like I'm in a similar spot. Lacking the ability to establish a connection with anyone outside of close family members, and even then that only really happens when they are the ones dri...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Friendships & BelongingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2024
1 points

i stutter all the time, especially with my friends but ive asked them multiple times if they get annoyed or irritated with my stutter but all they said is that they hardly notice it as they are so use...

Social & Relationships
Friendships & Belonging
postr/StutterApr 9, 2024
14 points

Stutter long gone but still haunts me

Stutter long gone but still haunts me For about 4 years, from early 7th grade to late sophomore year, I had a stutter. During those four years I lost a lot of my friends and ability to trust people an...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Friendships & BelongingHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2024
3 points

1. The stutter isn't my problem, its everyone else's problem. 2. Most people just want to talk about themselves so you can get pretty far without saying much 3. When the stutter is put forward peopl...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFriendships & BelongingStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2024
7 points

I used to be quite lonely and known as the kid who stutters, then in 2nd grade I met my best friend who was super chill with me and didn't bother with my stutter, from then onwards I just kept making ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Friendships & BelongingStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterApr 8, 2024
22 points

How do you do it??

How do you do it?? Some people on this sub say they have a wonderful social life despite stuttering. Or their friend or brother stutters but gets the good girls. How tf do you do it. I have zero frien...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Friendships & BelongingHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2024
3 points

I don't know. Maybe if the people at the new place are nicer, warmer and more welcoming then maybe I'd be more inclined to speak more and try connecting more with people. The only benefit I see to c...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingFriendships & Belonging