How do you do it??

How do you do it?? Some people on this sub say they have a wonderful social life despite stuttering. Or their friend or brother stutters but gets the good girls. How tf do you do it. I have zero friends so lets not talk about the good girls, i struggle with confidence, i have been the asocial weird kid all my life and what not. So when i hear yall say that you have a normal or even better than normal social life i really want to know the secret. So how exactly do you do it