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commentr/StutterNov 25, 2014
1 points

Abilify is an anti psychotic prescribed for severe mental disorders and comes with a whole range of potential severe side effects that cause health issues. It's an atypical dopamine antagonist. Resear...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Hiding & ConcealmentHarmful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2014
1 points

I definitely think it's worse, for multiple reasons: 1. It creates more fear, blocking in place of repetitious syllables IMO just means you don't like showing your stutter. For me it's the unpredicta...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2014
2 points

Everyone stutters in their own way. A lot of people just block silently, which i think can be even worse. Some people stutter by changing words around or pretending not to know answers. Anything you d...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2014
1 points

Sucks that this particular job didn't work for you, but at least you decided to get out! My stutter is not as subtle as yours seems to be, its not every single word, but it tends to be frequent long ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentBlocks & StoppagesPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2014
3 points

I've found that we care more about our stutter than anyone else does, maybe keep that in mind for next time and use this experience as evidence of that. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterNov 13, 2014
8 points

I have a stutter and travelled to overseas alone, stayed in a hostel with randoms and met a lot of fun people. Sort of an AMA + story post

I have a stutter and travelled to overseas alone, stayed in a hostel with randoms and met a lot of fun people. Sort of an AMA + story post So pretty much I'm just like everybody else here, we're not e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2014
1 points

I used to have trouble saying Kickin Chickin Sandwhich. Loved that sandwich from Zaxbys but lord knows I couldnt say it. My girlfriend would order for me because it would make me self conscious not to...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2014
1 points

Honestly dude, do everything yourself. Having your girlfriend, mother, sister, friend, whatever do stuff for you is just going to hold you back even more. Now, I don't know how bad your stutter actu...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2014
1 points

This was hugely reassuring to read. I know being open about my stutter is something I should do, but it's just hard to really get to the point where I'm confortable saying i have one openly. ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2014
2 points

I've worked with a few doctors now, at various points in their careers (med student, resident, fellow, attending) and in various specialties. A "pattern" I've noticed is that most physicians-in-train...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2014
1 points

You become uncomfortable because it's like a mirror and you (subconciously) worry if it looks like that when you speak too. There are people who don't stutter that get uncomfortable when listening t...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2014
2 points

I work in software sales. Most of the people I work with are senior level CIO, CFO, Owners of the company. I remember my first sales job I was like "HELL NO", but out of college and needed the job. ...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2014
4 points

Because everybody is watching you and scrutinizing everything about you. Or so that's what you think. It's a scary thing, no matter who you are. ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2014
3 points

I'm an attorney who has been a life long stutterer. I am a litigator in court, and I can tell you that I still get worried about stuttering during a cross-examination. I consider myself successful (th...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerPublic SpeakingHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2014
3 points

When I was in my early 20's I enlisted as an Army interrogator. I chose that b/c I knew if would force me to deal with my stutter. I learned a lot about managing my stutter and talking about it with o...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2014
6 points

Avoidance behavior like this usually doesn't have a positive effect on the mental side of your stuttering....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
1 points

I'm a video producer/editor, with a moderate stutter. The hardest part was of course the interview but after that talent speaks for itself (no pun intended haha). I used to work in customer service ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
1 points

I work as a Customer Service Rep for my company, actually. I take a deep breath whenever that phone starts ringing and I block all the other noises out, and I get through about 80-80% of my phone call...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
1 points

In Junior High, I sold newspaper subscriptions door-to-door. I'm not sure if I sold them because I'm the worlds best salesman, or if they pitied me. Either way, I made BANK. And by bank, I mean I made...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2014
1 points

Oh no, I always go to Mc or Jack every day on my lunch break and order myself. It's only when she's there when she orders for me. I guess I don't want her to hear me struggling. :/...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others