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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2013
1 points

Thank you for your answer. Honestly i had no idea that stuttering was such a hard thing to cope with. I'm also not from the US but from northern Europe. Bums me out that i cant help my cousin myself a...

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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2013
1 points

Ha! As though my mom would ever let me do that! I think it would be nice sometimes but I know I have to face my fears eventually. ...

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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2013
2 points

I find that when I try and stall, my thoughts start to spiral and nothing comes out at all! The way I look at it is this: "If they have a problem with it, it's their problem, not mine." Hope that he...

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postr/StutterJul 23, 2013
10 points

conference call failure

conference call failure I was hoping this conference call would go better than others in the past, it didn't. I kept stuttering on certain words that are unavoidable. They were quiet, as if they di...

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2013
1 points

My mother tongue is Hindi. I am from India so I guess my english is not that bad :) And I feel I should apologize for generalizing things a bit in my earlier comment. The most enigmatic thing about s...

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2013
1 points

If English isn't your mother tongue, what is?! holy hell haha I was definitely REALLY emo about my stutter for a long time - I was bullied pretty bad on and off until 8th grade, and teachers would so...

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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2013
1 points

Thank you for that reply, i only asked Reddit to see what other stutterers opinions are on the matter. I wanted to know if its even possible to get a permit for having a stutter. With presentations in...

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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2013
2 points

I understand the point you're trying to make. We like to get high because we lose our inhibitions. It is our inhibitions from years of stuttering and our anxiety about stuttering that sometimes makes...

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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2013
1 points

Did not say it was a self esteem issue i think my self esteem is really high! I do care what internet strangers have to say. I've never actually talked to people with the same issues as myself until i...

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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2013
1 points

In the long-run, this is not wise. Work on your self-esteem without needing to depend on external support, man. I feel that you're taking the easy way out. Please don't be short-sighted. But you're an...

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commentr/StutterJun 26, 2013
2 points

I know how you feel, it makes me feel that they think i'm a fake, And I know i'm not. But i find it very hard to keep up the tips I have learnt. :S it's hard...

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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2013
3 points

There might be, depending on your course requirements, it varies from course to course. One word of advice, please stop this. Please don't make decisions about your life with your fears about stammer...

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postr/StutterJun 9, 2013
21 points

"The disastrous days weren't when I stammered in front of 600 people. [...] It was the times when I haven't spoken up, haven't asked my question..."

"The disastrous days weren't when I stammered in front of 600 people. [...] It was the times when I haven't spoken up, haven't asked my question..." ...

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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2013
1 points

been there dude, being asked if i was mentally retarded by a check out clerk at the mall (older lady) was probably one of the hardest hitting insults in my life. you say you have a daughter? If tha...

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commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2013
1 points

I thought you were my husband until you mentioned a daughter, as he is also 31 this year, and his biggest problem is blocking. For what it's worth, I have never heard of a single person who had the im...

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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2013
2 points

I am in a similar boat as you. I'm 21, and a senior in college. Sometimes my stutter can be controlled, but other times it gets the best of me. When one of my professors asked me a question in class t...

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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2013
1 points

Addressing your last paragraph, especially when you say "I'm wasting their time." That's entirely not true. There are those VERY few people that don't understand what stuttering means and think it's s...

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postr/StutterFeb 24, 2013
23 points

Rant: I'm 24 and I don't know what to do

Rant: I'm 24 and I don't know what to do I've been stuttering since I was in first grade. Following an embarrassing and pathetic "Talent Show" We were forced to take part in, I had the joy of being pa...

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commentr/StutterOct 16, 2012
1 points

Actually it's fucking terrible that part of my job is calling clients. Theoretically, practice makes perfect. Problem is I've been calling with this problem for the past month and it never got better....

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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2012
2 points

Yeah, I'm fine if I take a few seconds to refocus and say it. Going back to the Panera example, however, there's usually a line and the cashier is obviously pushing for everything to go quickly. It's ...

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