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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2016
3 points

I'm having trouble being myself, because of stuttering. I can't say the jokes I want or expand on a topic with deeper emotion/interest....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2016
1 points

Thanks for the reply. What you said about goals is exactly what I was taught in CBT. We were told by our instructors to compile a list of goals like the ones you mentioned and then to gradually incre...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2015
1 points

I would also like to know this. ***Socializing:*** I see things as *it is what it is* and there's nothing I can do about it. I'm 5'10" but would like to be 6'3". Should I try to grow to 6'3" at the ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyShame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2015
1 points

That sure is rough being in the in-between part of jobs. As far as the stutter goes, it excluded me from tons of jobs. It is true, while my stutter may not be attractive to some employers... others ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2015
2 points

> How do you do it? I am always trying to keep my mood up. It's a constant battle. One thing that has helped me is that I've accepted the fact that I'll never be a social person. It was something...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2015
2 points

Trying to enjoy life is fucking hard with a severe stutter that makes communication nearly impossible. How do you do it?...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2015
3 points

Yea I feel the same way and I have a moderate (sometimes more than moderate) stutter. The worst is when masking/hiding your stutter becomes the centerpiece of your life. Mind you: With the techniques...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2015
1 points

Yea, the highs and lows. In a low right now myself - depressed at life. I think its best to not let yourself get too high, it just makes the inevitable fall that much worse....

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterNov 17, 2015
15 points

Advice needed..........I cant move forward in my social life and my stuttering is holding me back

Advice needed..........I cant move forward in my social life and my stuttering is holding me back Ive posted here before and im just depressed af right now. 19m and my life is pretty average compared...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2015
1 points

I should probably mention that if the problem doesn't get better, I am considering dropping out of school since I don't see a lawyer-career being compatible with my problem :/...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2015
1 points

It's one of my fears. This is why I don't want to marry or have kids. No matter how understanding and helpful I will be to them, this fucking world is a cruel place and he will get hurt and it will da...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2015
1 points

Definitely. I am in college right now and I worry about my future and if I'll be able to make it in the real world after school is over, or if I'm going to be able to finish school at all. Really, my ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
postr/StutterOct 21, 2015
0 points

Law 18: Do Not Build Fortresses to Protect Yourself

Law 18: Do Not Build Fortresses to Protect Yourself Social avoidance feels safe. But in reality being closer to more people is safer. Stuttering for me was partly about avoiding being rejected. > ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterOct 17, 2015
12 points

Without a stutter, do you think you would be a social person?

Without a stutter, do you think you would be a social person? I think I would be. Definitely. It's the only thing that blocks me from being one....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. MaskingFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterOct 15, 2015
4 points

Confused, chance to change my whole life but ..

Confused, chance to change my whole life but .. Hello guys, Im having a very intense stuttering and thats ruinning my life in many parts, i"ve lost any respect for myself. When im facing anything, i'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterOct 12, 2015
9 points

Who else hasn't stuttered for most of their life?

Who else hasn't stuttered for most of their life? Because of issues that I would rather not discuss, I developed a stutter (non-existent to extremely severe depending on the situation) around two year...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentTrauma & Psychological+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2015
6 points

Yes, I have. I find stuttering to be too frustrating and I can't handle it. But I snap out of it just because I always think about my future and my brother's...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2015
1 points

I appreciate what you're saying but it did come off a bit like you have no understanding of our plight. I'm fairly certain 90% of the users here aren't brooding over their stutter 24/7 and are living ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2015
1 points

There are many reasons why I wouldn't have children. Stuttering ranks pretty high on that list. Waiting for the inevitable downvotes.....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2015
1 points

But get this Aidan, planing the whole conversation that you say, it's actually what in my opinnion sets the all thing on (stuttering) because , speech, (normal speech) is spontanious , it's something ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+1 more