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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2014
1 points

I'm American-born to Pakistani parents. I've heard that there might be others on my dad's side who stutter. I can mostly understand Urdu, and speak some here and there. I didn't learn more because of ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2014
2 points

Its strange how it happens in some scenarios and not others. That tells me the problem we have is all mental and can be changed or fixed if in the correct state of mind. The question is how to get the...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2014
1 points

I've recently read on it being a physical issue as well. However, I can't help but wonder if there aren't psychological 'after effects' in some people who stutter (eg. me). It's probably all a conditi...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2014
2 points

Thanks man. I have had people say stuff like 'don't worry dude, you're a man of few words, but I know those words are genuine and wise'. I'm thankful for people like that, yes I am. I understand that ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2014
3 points

It would definitely not be nearly as bad if I wasn't afraid/insecure about it. I'm trying to change my mindset but that's easier said than done. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
2 points

I may be a unique case. I have my ups and downs for fluency, but I usually don't concede that anything is wrong with my speech. I'm okay with people knowing that I stutter, but if I'm meeting new peop...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2014
2 points

Obe, you've hit the bullseye. I think that's the key, you've got to own it and not let it own you. I wish you the best of luck. Im not very open but im working on it. Trying to hold eye contact, get ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
postr/StutterSep 1, 2014
7 points

How open are you about your stutter? Does being more explicit help?

How open are you about your stutter? Does being more explicit help? I usually only speak to my family and close friends about my stutter. I'm sure the I people see on a regular basis know I have a stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2014
1 points

Yes, I think we're on the same page, but getting there from different angles. There is a lot of mind-reading that goes on in the minds of people who stutter. And whether that gets interpreted as "[ho...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2014
1 points

I think I see where you're coming from. But in this case, couldn't over-thinking still fit into his framework of people "[holding] the minds of other men, not objective reality, as his ultimate psycho...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2014
1 points

Hey thanks for clarifying that. So, if our working definition of 'low self esteem' is a lack of agency, low self efficacy, external locus of control, I'm not satisfied with Braden's description (or,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2014
3 points

Hi iciaguy. On second thought, I'd like to rephrase that last question. Think I may have over-simplified it! Branden's premise seems to be that the core problem isn't even the type of thinking, but th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2014
2 points

I'm actually very happy with #1, because most people I encounter really don't know what a stutter is or what it's like to feel that way. I typically find people who do #1 more kinder and patient with ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideValidation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2014
3 points

I just graduated from college, lately I've been pretty fluent but also have some blocks and occasional repetitions. My stutter has been the biggest battle in my intrapersonal life and I've trie...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2014
1 points

If you do introductions the first day of class introduce yourself followed by some witty line involving you're a person who stutters. It saves a lot of stress from the rest of the semester, may be an ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Preparation & RehearsalHumor & Community ToneAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2014
1 points

100% covert. No one really knows that I ACTUALLY stutter except for my family and a close friend. A few of them think that I stutter because I'm so nervous or because I'm antisocial, but none know tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2014
1 points

I'm actually 35 ... I'm blogging over at helloistutter.com It's weird because I feel like there's a "positive feedback loop" with my covert stuttering. I'm doing well in the job, etc., so no motivati...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2014
1 points

I'm covert outside my house. With my parents and my sisters, I stutter like a madman and I don't care. My gf knows that I stutter too but I hardly ever stutter with her....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2014
1 points

My stutter has almost completely dried up, yet I stutter constantly around my parents. I also talk faster. I think my brain is making me try to impress them....

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Energy & Biological RhythmsAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2014
5 points

this is literally the story of my life. I feel like I would be the most outgoing, sociable person if I didn't have a stutter....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation